I'm looking for a message board/ website for IF women who have come to the end of the road and have stopped treatment or are choosing to live child free? (or are taking a break before trying adoption) This is where I am right now and it's a tough spot to be in. I don't relate to this board anymore and the adoption board isn't right either. I'm am looking for some women like me. Does anyone know of a good one?
I'd appreciate any suggestions! I'll probably be posting this on a few boards so sorry for the duplicates.
Thanks.
Re: Can you help me?
I have visited the adoption forum at www.fertilethoughts.com and noticed that they have a "Living Child Free" section. Maybe that would be what you are looking for?
Good luck on your journey.
Sorry you are struggling. I have been through IF/MC and now adoption. It has been a very long 5 years and you have to be ready for adoption. I agree you need to take time to make sure you are comfortable and I hope to find you back here.
There is a book called "Sweet Grapes" that talks about living childfree and people who chose that route. I have this book as I looked into it at one point. I would be happy to mail it to you if you PM me your address. Not sure you are comfortable with that. I dont know specific boards but hope you find that as well.
My mother is law is from South Dakota originally. I have never visited but my husband spent most of his summers there and I hope to visit one day. My in laws still have a house and go for months at a time.