Just went to the DR. and he told me I am finally 1 cm and 50% effaced. Can anyone give me some good advice that labor was on the way when you were in the same position as me????
DR. said he will come before this weekend but I'm afraid he's just saying that so I don't go crazy!!!
I really don't want to have to be induced.
Re: ** PLEASE give me some hope.... **
with my son I had an OB appt at 39w 4d and was not effaced, 1cm, baby not engaged.
At 40w 4d I had my son less than 2 hrs after I got to the hospital, went from 4-10cm in an hour, and was med free!
There is hope!
Proud mama to a boys- 6/17/09 - a girl 2/23/11- and a boy 8/20/12
Hmmm...sorry to burst your bubble but think this is more likely...I was 1 cm-50% effaced 3 weeks prior to delivery and ended up needing to be induced due to a concern for baby's size, my GD, and a possible heart defect on the baby's u/s. At the time of my induction I was 3 cm-75% where I stays until they broke my water after 12 hours of pitocin. The contractions weren't bad prior to breaking my water. I got an epidural just before they broke my water as getting an epi was my plan for pain control and my OB stated that often the contractions get worse once your water is broken and he wanted me semi comfortable so I could sleep as the induction was going so slowly.
I was starting to get pretty desperate towards the end too. And I heard the stories of other people and didn't necessarily believe them. But, here's what happened to me if it encourages you at all!
I had an OB appointment in the afternoon when I was 39w2d. I left in tears because I still hadn't even begun to dilate/efface. All he could say was that my cervix was "soft". He even started talking about inductions.
Friday evening (the next day!) I went into labor and was admitted to L&D on Saturday. So it really can happen even overnight! Hang in there!