TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Venus Fete Trap

Is what I have where my uterus used to be. My betas only went up 282 to 382 last week. I assumed I'd be bleeding right now, since I've had m/c spotting start with betas still in the low 1000s (the upshot to doing this so often - I know when I'm not miscarrying "right"!!!) No such luck. Sigh. So I'm going in for more b/w tomorrow, but I'm almost certain this is another BO that the ute refuses to kiss goodbye; otherwise I'd have started bleeding by now.

Seriously. At least I used to be able to at least do the miscarriage part right. FFS.. At least it's a long weekend so I won't have to use PTO to cytotec-bomb the ute.

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  • Your ute just can't get anything right Sad Hugs!
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  • I'm so sorry you have to know this. *hugs*
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  • Sending lots of hugs your way, I'm so sorry you are going through this.

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  • Your ute needs a serious talking to. For real. I'm going to write a petition and get everyone to sign it.

    Get it together, you stupid piece of crap!

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  • (((hugs)))  This is just so unfair.  I hope that the blood work gives you some answers. 
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  • I'm so sorry
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  • I'm so sorry C. I hope this is over soon for you. ((hugs))

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  • Your lady bits are just one massive FAIL!!!

    But umm, yay for great timing and all in having the long weekend to kick back and enjoy the carnage. Tongue Tied

    Oh sweets I'm so sorry. This blows huge donkey chunks and I just wish things could be easier for you.

    And for the record, "cytotec-bomb the ute" makes me giggle in bitter, inappropriate ways.

  • I am sorry everything has to be so hard.  That stinks. 
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  • I just wanted to say how sorry I am that you're going through this all again.
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    And for the record, "cytotec-bomb the ute" makes me giggle in bitter, inappropriate ways.

    It's my preferred WMD. If only Saddam had known about it... 

  • I am sorry you are going through this.
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  • *huge hugs*  Many T&P's coming your way.
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  • {{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}

    I hope that your body starts to work right for you.

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  • Crying

    I really don't want this for you.  If there is a shred of hope that this could be viable, I will hold onto it for you.  Also, UNIVERSE, don't give Colinda another BO!

    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • I'm so sorry Colinda. This really fvcking sucks.
  • Your ute needs to seriously stop screwing things up.

    Enough already.

     

    I'm sorry. 

  • I'm so sorry...((hugs))
  • I am so sorry! I hope that things start progressing soon.  What a f'ing horrible thing to have to go through.  Waiting sucks.  (((HUGS)))
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  • argh. I wish our bodies would cooperate and get the memo of when and how things are.
    m/c#1 07/16/08 (11 weeks), m/c#2 10/10/08 (8 weeks). and then nothing since except every test possible (no answers). IUI#1 and #2: BFNs Super lucky to be buddies with Peetie. Our out of nowhere, surprise DD born 5/29/2011
  • I'm so sorry.  I hate it when our bodies can't even screw things up right.
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    I really don't want this for you.  If there is a shred of hope that this could be viable, I will hold onto it for you.  Also, UNIVERSE, don't give Colinda another BO!

    I'm holding onto the shreds with suntoto. I don't want this to be a BO and I'm going to hope and pray it isn't until you hear back. ((hugs))

     I also read your title as Venus Fete Trap, as in the French word for party. That would be a much more fun kind of trap.

    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

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  • I?m so sorry for what you are going through, big hugs

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  • I'm so sorry.
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     I also read your title as Venus Fete Trap, as in the French word for party. That would be a much more fun kind of trap.

    Yeah, actually I keep reading it that way too. But feet didn't work, nor feat. But it sure ain't a fete-party in there. She's a very bad hostess, kicking her guests out way too early in a blood and viscera-tinged blaze of glory. 

  • Ugh - this just sucks.  I would love to have it turn out to be just slow rising betas, but if not then I hope things start working soon.  Thinking of you!  ((hugs))

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  • I am sorry sweetie.
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  • ((hugs)) I hate this more than words can say
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  • Oh I am so sorry.  Sending you huge hugs.
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  • I'm sorry, Colinda.  I wish things were clear one way or the other for you.  The waiting just makes it worse, IMO.  Hugs.
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  • I'm sorry, Colinda.  This whole thing really effing sucks, and I hate, hate, hate that you have to go through this.  ((Hugs))
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  • Dude.

    STupid Venus Fete Trap.  :(  Sorry.

  • W.T.F.  Seriously.  I'm sorry hun.
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