Out of the closet...thanks 3T!

evanssj · February 2011

So DH and I finished all testing and had our follow up meeting with the RE this morning. The diagnosis as expected is "unexplained infertility." We have the paperwork started for a superovulation cycle with IUI as soon as insurance approves us. It really hit me today driving home from the apt. and I had to stop b/c I was crying so hard. I decided to call my mom and finally let her in on our "secret."

Thank you so much to all of you who responded to my post about telling ppl IRL with your positive things to say. You really inspired me to just come out with it and tell somebody!! I can not tell you how hard it was to make the words come out of my mouth but when they did...such a weight lifted. She was wonderful and accepted the news and was just there...so thank you ladies.

hootie123 · February 2011

I know that feeling - I told my sister first and it was like a weight was lifted. And she has been so supportive and helpful with everything - I reget not telling her sooner.

I've only told my sister, mom and one friend at work that is also TTC. But it is so nice to talk to someone (other than DH) about it.

LindzK · February 2011

I'm sorry to hear about the Dx. That's really good to hear that you told your mom though. And really great to hear that she was supportive. I'm going to see my mom next week. You may have inspired me to tell her. We'll see if the opportunity arises. Good luck with the insurance and the IUI.

Jezebell26 · February 2011

Glad you are out of the closet! Its a liberating feeling! Best of luck moving forward

Jewlz018 · February 2011

I'm glad you feel good about your decision. We are planning to tell DH's parents after we have a dx.

Hope you get your insurance approval quickly. Good Luck! :-)

FyreFry5 · February 2011

I'm sorry you are having a hard time, but I'm glad that talking with your mom helped. I think you'll be glad to have her in your support network.

I hope everything goes well for you with your IUI, and wish you lots of luck!

evanssj · February 2011

LindzK:
I'm sorry to hear about the Dx. That's really good to hear that you told your mom though. And really great to hear that she was supportive. I'm going to see my mom next week. You may have inspired me to tell her. We'll see if the opportunity arises. Good luck with the insurance and the IUI.

Good luck to you wtih telling your mom! It feels so much better now that I told mine and of course she told my dad. They have both been overflowing with support and it kind of took some of the pressure off me. Thank you for your kind words.

AmyD583 · February 2011

I had that same weight lifted when my SIL started prying about how my endo had been acting and the cat was let out of the bag. It felt great to have a supportive person to cry to other than my hubby. I want to tell my parents, but my hubby doesn't want everyone to know.

I'm glad it went well for you and they are being so supportive! GL with your insurance!!!!

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