I never in a million years imagined I'd have to ask this question. I am a total bookworm and always have been! My DD (3yo) likes books and will 'pretend read' them herself, but won't let me read to her. It always ends with her bossing me around, saying that I'm reading it wrong, telling me what the story is, turning pages when she's ready, etc. It's so unpleasant and frustrating (I think for both of us!), I've pretty much given up.
Anyone else experience this?
ETA: I guess I should mention, in case it's not clear, she's a very 'spirited' child. (Read: v v v willful and independent)
Re: Does your DC let you read to them?
I would not worry too much about reading the exact story to her right now but reading some and then talking/asking questions about it, talking about the pictures, asking her to point things out, etc. etc. she will get to the point where she loves to read, try not to stress about it and maybe she will relax about it too
p.s. my DD1 is very "spirited" as well :P
DD: Yes, yes, yes! She requires no less than 2 books a night and reads on her own.
DS1: Yes, but he isn't as enthusiatic as DD.
DS2: Yeah but loose interest quickly.
I think it would be fine to let her read them to you.
I would tell her stories while you ride in the car. Let her participate in deciding what happens next. You can base the stories on classic kids' stories.
Or, ask her if she'd like to "read" to you instead. Tell her she can tell what she remembers about the story using the pictures as clues.
Or, make your own "book" by cutting pictures out magazines and drawing. She can tell what's happening on the page and you can write the words.
Don't get too rigid about "reading" meaning you sit with her on your lap reading out loud while she looks at the pictures. It still counts as "reading/pre-literacy" if you're looking at pictures in a magazine together, telling stories, making up stories together, even talking about what happened and why in a TV show.
Also, I'd see if she is interested in learning letters and sounds and beginning to learn to read. You can play a kid's version of 20 questions that helps with literacy by saying "I'm thinking of something that begins with the letter B "BUH" sound. It's yellow and we eat it. It has a peel we don't eat. It's a fruit. What do you think I'm thinking of? Yeah! Buh, buh Banana starts with B! Good guess!"
Many a "spirited" child is also a v v v bright child, and she may be ready for a more active role in reading.