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Sometimes I feel.....

megntom07megntom07
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like I have a better friendship with you all than I do with my IRL friends. You ladies are all just so amazing and I relate so much better with you all than I do with my friends (and I am beginning to use that term loosely). My supposed BFF of almost 24 years still hasn't seen L. While they may not seem like a big deal to some, it hurts me. I think the worst part is that she is at church every Sunday and knowing that I am there and where to find me (I teach Children's Church), she hasn't once made the effort. By the time I get the kids dismissed and get downstairs she has already booked it out of there. She was also supposed to come to the house 2 separate times to see him and ended up with excuses both times. I don't have many friends to begin with, but being 23 and married w/ 2 children just seems to make it harder. Ok, pity party for 1 is over!  

Moral of the story-- I love you ladies! 

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Re: Sometimes I feel.....

  • JLPT830JLPT830 member
    Well since we're going to be related by marriage one day....you know I love ya!
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  • KYmama9286KYmama9286 member
    I know exactly how you feel-- I've been struggling a lot lately with trying to figure out where I "fit in". I dont really fit in w/ my old friends (they are all single, still go out and party every night, etc.) while I'm at home and married with a baby at 24. Dont get me wrong, I wouldnt change my life for anything and I really dont miss that lifestyle AT ALL. On the same hand I dont feel like I fit in with a lot of my married friends that also have kids. Its like those women just gave up in ever having fun and/or their definition of what is "fun" is SO not appealing to me. I often feel like I have to filter myself around them b/c if I talk about "going out to the bar" they all act like I'm some raging alchy lol Thank goodness for the ladies on here!
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  • MoestenMoesten

    Sounds like your BFF is being a turd recently. That's hurtful. It's tough when you are the first (or last for that matter) couple to marry and have kids among your friends. No one seems to know how to act afterwards. I hope she comes around soon. 

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  • megntom07megntom07

    J-- haha! L and M's kids don't stand a chance in the nap department of they follow in their parents footsteps! :)

    S--Yea, I am right there with you. The 2 friend that I that are married w/ kids have been harder to be around. One of them I definitely have to filter myself around and I hate doing that bc it's not me and the other one has well, she's been driving me nuts! I think you and I could be BFF's! :)

    M--she definitely has! You are so right, it's almost awkward. They started to exclude me from GTG after I got married and then pretty much just quit asking me once I got pregnant with H. It sucks. 

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