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would this hurt your feelings or am i being crazy

green beangreen bean
in March 2011 Moms
Iam probley letting my hormones get the better of me but would this hurt your feelings? So my baby shower is this Saturday.yay! Anyways my bff sent the invatations out about a month ago to give people enough notice we invited all of dhs cousins and its going to be a Jack and Jill type shower. Anyway we are really close to one of his cousins and his wife we have been to every party christmas newyears and bought their 2 dds christmas and birthday gifts. this perticular cousin plays soccer with dh and yesterday when dh was talking to the coach of the team it was mentioned that his cousin was not going to be playing this Sunday because he was going to be in reno. It is possible they are going up on Sunday and coming back Monday night or going Saturday night and coming back Monday. But I doubt it. I know I will have a great time weather they come or not but would it hurt you feelings considering I know for a fact this is a very last minute trip (they are renting the house from the soccer coach) . Sorry this was super long.
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Re: would this hurt your feelings or am i being crazy

  • ALance416ALance416

    Considering how close you are to this person it's understandable for you to be hurt. I know I probably would be too. but I wouldn't get worked up about it. There is no reason for you to get stressed out over this and your baby as well.

    If they don't show - forget 'em! You don't need them. The people who are there truly care about you and your growing family; and might get a little offended if your bummed out over one person who didn't show up. Suggesting they they aren't as important.

    One sided friendships are always hard to handle. You have to do what's best for you and your family. Even if that means cooling it on the gifts and parties.

     

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    Oh iam still super excited for the shower and iam not going to let it ruin the day and pout about them at all I just thought it was kind of rude to plan a trip to reno for the same weekend as a close family members baby shower for their first baby. Oh well not a huge deal.
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  • Jessicaanne_1@yahoo.comJessicaanne_1@yahoo.com
    I can understand your being disappointed. I don't think you should feel hurt, it wasn't an attack on you. You don't plan your life around them, you can't expect them to plan their lives around you. 
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