TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

12 DPO = BFN

I've already gotten my calendar out to plan next cycle to see when I will need to take time off to go in for a visit with the dildo cam.  DH and I are already talking about what kind of trip we want to take when our 3 cycles are over.  Hawaii is high on the list, so is Niagara Falls.  A cruise would be nice too.  We need to get our passports.  Dh made brief mention of visiting a cousin of his that is close to the Grand Canyon.  I told him no way, they have been married 2 years less than us and she is KU with #5.  No way in hell I'm going there in on our trip to "celebrate" the fact that we can't have children of our own.
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Re: 12 DPO = BFN

  • Oh Kristy, I'm sorry you got a BFN but hopefully the next cycle will work out better. Isn't there a statistic about the first IUI doesn't usually work but the 2nd or 3rd do? I really hope you get your BFP soon. 
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  • I'm sorry Kristy.
  • I'm sorry about the bfn.

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  • imageKristysRedBarn:
    I've already gotten my calendar out to plan next cycle to see when I will need to take time off to go in for a visit with the dildo cam.  DH and I are already talking about what kind of trip we want to take when our 3 cycles are over.  Hawaii is high on the list, so is Niagara Falls.  A cruise would be nice too.  We need to get our passports.  Dh made brief mention of visiting a cousin of his that is close to the Grand Canyon.  I told him no way, they have been married 2 years less than us and she is KU with #5.  No way in hell I'm going there in on our trip to "celebrate" the fact that we can't have children of our own.

    Ummm, yeah, that's a MASSIVE no!

    DH and I keep thinking about Hawaii, too. It's just so far away. Living on the east coast, I can be in Paris faster. Niagara Falls is kinda tourist-trapy in my mind but I love the tacky tourist shops, cheesy museums, etc. so had a great time. We also went in the winter when it was really quiet. I hear the summer is a nightmare of crowds.

    I'm so sorry about the BFN hon. that really sucks.

  • I'm sorry Kristy
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  • I'm so sorry about the BFN, Kristy.  Sad
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  • I'm so sorry Kristy, and I don't blame you for not visiting that cousin. I wouldn't go either!

     

  • I'm sorry about the BFN.

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  • I'm sorry about the BFN Kristy. 
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am sorry Kristy.  I was told the first IUI usually doesn't take.  I am hoping you get your sticky baby in the next IUI.  DH and I are doing the same thing...we booked our vacation for July and getting the hell away from here.
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  • I'm sorry Kristy :(

    My vote is for Hawaii.  I have only been to Maui, but it was fabulous.

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  • ((hugs)) I'm sorry Kristy.
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  • imagewickedsugar:
    I'm sorry Kristy. But if you go to Niagara Falls, we could met ! I'm not too far from Niagara.

    That's very tempting!  I really want to go up North so I can get some HP sauce.  Especially the Tutti Fruity kind, I love that stuff and would be happy to just dip pretzels in it Embarrassed

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  • kristy im sorry to hear this. ((hugs)) i wish you nothing but the best of luck next cycle!!

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  • I'm sorry. That sucks. I have heard that the 2nd and 3rd IUIs are more successful for some reason, too. I hope it's true in your case.
  • I?m sorry :-( Big hugs. I hope that you guys have a great trip, wherever you decide to go!

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  • Hugs! I'm sorry about the BFN.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
  • I am sorry about your BFN.  I hope your next cycle is the one and you can't go one of those trips. 
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  • Sorry for the bfn Kristy.  If I could pick I would go for Hawaii.
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  • crap! I am so sorry to hear this news. I'm glad you and DH are planning for not only the next round but for some fun things for the two of you.

    While I'm pulling for Niagara Falls (only b/c I live so close) - go to Hawaii. Niagara Falls is lovely and I can tell you all the fun nearby things to do  but it is nothing like Hawaii! 

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  • Hugs. I'm so sorry. The first failed IUI is rough. I hope that you have success with future attempts.

    A cruise sounds like fun....a FH cousin? Not so much Wink


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  • Fvck the Universe in her fvcking face.

    ***hugs***

     I am so sorry Kristy.

     FYI, we're going to cruise to Alaska. Sad

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  • Stupid BFN!  I'm sorry.  I hope you guys decide on an awesome trip.  Takes lots of pics so I can live through you!

    *hugs*

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  • *huge hugs*  I'm so sorry :(
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  • imagedandyelle:

    Fvck the Universe in her fvcking face.

    ***hugs***

     I am so sorry Kristy.

     FYI, we're going to cruise to Alaska. Sad

    A cruise to Alaska sounds awesome!  You probably have ports that are close to you, right?

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  • I'm so sorry Kristy.
  • I'm so sorry Kristy.((HUGS))

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  • Oh damn, I'm sorry:(  I'm thinking about you and praying for you constantly!  Hawaii or a cruise sound AMAZING! 

    Has your dr discussed doing a laparoscopy?  I had this done after my first failed IUI. 

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  • I'm sorry about the BFN. The trip to visit his cousin sounds just awful.  I am dying to go to Hawaii, I thought we would do that after m/c#3 last year, but we didn't. 
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  • I'm so sorry about the BFN Kristy.  I hope the vacation planning helps take your mind off things - I vote for Hawaii too!  Good luck next cycle!  I will keep everything crossed for you.
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  • ((hugs)) kristy I'm so sorry. Thinking of you often
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  • I am so sorry, Kristy. Planning for the next round and a trip is a good outlook. I am going to vote Hawaii, but it is where we like to spend our time. Big hugs
  • imageSweetieD21:

    Oh damn, I'm sorry:(  I'm thinking about you and praying for you constantly!  Hawaii or a cruise sound AMAZING! 

    Has your dr discussed doing a laparoscopy?  I had this done after my first failed IUI. 

    My dr hasn't said anything about a lap.  I don't have any endo or scaring that showed up on the dye test.  Would there still be a benefit?

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  • Guess I missed this the other day :(.  Sorry Kristy, I hope #2 is your magic cycle!
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