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sex enjoyment...clicky poll

Re: sex enjoyment...clicky poll

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    We rarely have sex... but I have absolutely no problems taking care of business on my own.

    So, though I clicked that I'm that super special snowflake... it's not that special (though maybe I could light some candles next time I'm alone... LOL!). The 4 times we've had sex since finding out I was pregnant, I enjoyed it the same as always. The times I've enjoyed some solo-loving, I enjoyed it more. 

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    I voted "more" but that's only been in the past 2/3 weeks. Prior to that, it was less, much less than pre-pg.
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    I voted less than before but it's not 100% true. The truth is that I am just frustrated because I am too sensitive. TMI but my orgasms have been too intense and it doesn't feel as good. We have been having sex a lot though, and that is good.
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    imagepandi02a:
    I voted less than before but it's not 100% true. The truth is that I am just frustrated because I am too sensitive. TMI but my orgasms have been too intense and it doesn't feel as good. We have been having sex a lot though, and that is good.

    I'm a little jealous. I haven't had one since I was like 5 weeks. And its not comfortable anymore. It hurts. Lube is an absolute must. I also have no desire. We are down to maybe once a week and its for his benefit honestly. Its sad really because we are newlyweds and so this is our time to really really have fun and we can't. 



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    I am LOVING 3rd tri sex! We are having it more and more lately. Thank god.
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    imagepandi02a:
    I voted less than before but it's not 100% true. The truth is that I am just frustrated because I am too sensitive. TMI but my orgasms have been too intense and it doesn't feel as good. We have been having sex a lot though, and that is good.

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    We have been having sex as much as before now.  For a few weeks it wasn't as much because I would fall asleep so early at night.  We now have a date everyday at 430 when I get home from work to keep our sex life roaring! It doesn't happen everyday, but we are trying to keep it up!
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    imagepandi02a:
    I voted less than before but it's not 100% true. The truth is that I am just frustrated because I am too sensitive. TMI but my orgasms have been too intense and it doesn't feel as good. We have been having sex a lot though, and that is good.

    I am feeling exactly the same!!! It's almost like the intensity hurts!!! I have always promised not to fake it and my DH doesn't like giving up until i do orgasm but i would honestly prefer sex to just be orgasm-less for now. I enjoy the intimacy but that's about it! 

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    We are still having sex every day, every other day if I want to take a break. I clicked I enjoy it less simply because there are some things that dont feel quite as good as before. I have to second Pandi on the statement that my orgasms are too intense sometimes. Im ok with tthe first one but no more multiples for me, its gets waayyy too sensitive!
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    imageJasonKristen:
    We have been having sex as much as before now.  For a few weeks it wasn't as much because I would fall asleep so early at night.  We now have a date everyday at 430 when I get home from work to keep our sex life roaring! It doesn't happen everyday, but we are trying to keep it up!

    I'm Impressed! I need at least a day in between to rest up! 

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    I was between "less than before" and "I 'enjoy' it for SO."  I think I've been horny once since I got pregnant.  All the other times I do it just because I don't want DH to be miserable.  And it's not miserable for me when we do it.  It's just really hard for me to get in the mood.  Then when it comes time for intercourse, it's been slightly painful/comfortable everytime but twice since I got preg.  :-  This might be TMI, but I used to like it hard but now that seems to hurt and I want him to go softer and go slower.  And it's almost like I'm tighter now because it hurts more.  Ugh.  It just sucks!
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    imagekjbarber86:
    I was between "less than before" and "I 'enjoy' it for SO."  I think I've been horny once since I got pregnant.  All the other times I do it just because I don't want DH to be miserable.  And it's not miserable for me when we do it.  It's just really hard for me to get in the mood.  Then when it comes time for intercourse, it's been slightly painful/comfortable everytime but twice since I got preg.  :-  This might be TMI, but I used to like it hard but now that seems to hurt and I want him to go softer and go slower.  And it's almost like I'm tighter now because it hurts more.  Ugh.  It just sucks!

    That's very similar to what I had been going through and then we discovered that lube is really important for me. We used to have no problem and it wasn't at all necessary so we never used it but now its a must. I know this is a weird topic but does it burn at all? That's what made me think about it. It shouldn't hurt or burn. So the next time we tried it and it made a world of difference with the pain.



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    We rarely have sex... but I have absolutely no problems taking care of business on my own.

    So, though I clicked that I'm that super special snowflake... it's not that special (though maybe I could light some candles next time I'm alone... LOL!). The 4 times we've had sex since finding out I was pregnant, I enjoyed it the same as always. The times I've enjoyed some solo-loving, I enjoyed it more. 

     THIS!!!  YesWe have sex probably once every week or so but when I take care of business on my own its WAY better than before! =)

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    It hurts so much that I cried last night to DH telling him I am worried that I will never enjoy it again.
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    Pretty sure I forgot what an orgasm even feels like by now! DH is too afraid to have sex, and I haven't been in the mood, being I have a ridiculously large porn star vagina right now. By the time I have this child, I have a feeling we're going to be humping like bunny rabbits just to get caught up on lost time!Wink
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    imagecarissa_danielle:
    Pretty sure I forgot what an orgasm even feels like by now! DH is too afraid to have sex, and I haven't been in the mood, being I have a ridiculously large porn star vagina right now. By the time I have this child, I have a feeling we're going to be humping like bunny rabbits just to get caught up on lost time!Wink

    lol yeah... this doesn't help our situation much either!

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    imagesugarplum2:

    We rarely have sex... but I have absolutely no problems taking care of business on my own.

    So, though I clicked that I'm that super special snowflake... it's not that special (though maybe I could light some candles next time I'm alone... LOL!). The 4 times we've had sex since finding out I was pregnant, I enjoyed it the same as always. The times I've enjoyed some solo-loving, I enjoyed it more. 

     THIS!!!  YesWe have sex probably once every week or so but when I take care of business on my own its WAY better than before! =)

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    The closest thing I get is cyber sex since my husband is overseas, lol.  It is a sad excuse for the real thing, but you sure do get creative!
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    With DH living 4 hours away, I don't get it at all (except for maybe the once a month we see each other). And that's pretty much the case up until week 40.

    Webcam fun = Best we can do
    (Haha).

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    I had to click special snowflake. While I didn't want to have sex one bit in the beginning, now I really want to. BUT, DH has had a major surgery and can't really get around too well. Yesterday at his doctor's appt. I heard the doc say "Well hopefully by the time she has the baby you'll be up and moving around a lot better." There goes my chances... :(
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