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lovin life23
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wednesday blues :(
lovin life23
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So I haven't posted in a while, actually probably not my last O date which was mid january..this week I should be Oing and I am stoked about that..but with all these bfp's (3 coming from couples I know) I can't help but just feel an eensy bit blue :We are only on cycle 4 so I'm not devistated or depressed or going to get melodramatic lol. And I have high hopes for whenever we do get pregnant..but today (at least right now) I cant help but shake the lil frowny face I have on...I'm sure it will subside and I am so excited for all the bfp's because I know each and everyone who got theirs so deserves it!! I think what gets me through is just knowing (and this is just me) that God's timing and plan is perfect and I know when it all happens it will be at the best time for us, maybe not when I would want it-but it will all work out the way it should...
((hugs)) to all my girlies that need them and high fives to all the BFP mamas! 
Edited to add: I think I am also a lil bluesy b/c one of my best friends just found out she is hypertensive and was so sad yesterday. She is just on my heart and I want to help her with the exercise/diet plan she has got to stick to for the next 3 mo's so that she can get it under control and not go on meds..
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Re: wednesday blues :(
I am right there with you. I am supposed to O either today or tomorrow but have yet to get a +OPK. I started temping this month, but I don't think any of them are really accurate because I rarely get an uninterrupted 3 hours of sleep and have taken my temp not at the exact time each morning (usually in the same hour, but not close).
I now see a temp shift but I can't really rely on that because I don't know if I am accurate or not. I just think I'm starting to get really overwhelmed with TTC and that I have bit off more than I can chew (temping, CP, CM, OPK's, greet tea, etc.) I think that if I don't get a BFP this cycle I'm going to just try and wing it for a few cycles to get my sanity back. Plus I think I'm starting to overwhelm/pressure my DH and I am starting to feel like I'm taking all the fun out of our sex life.
Today is a blue kinda day.
Hey Ladies,
I am totally on the same page with yall. I'm only on cycle 3 but recently found out I'm not ovulating, or at least I didn't last month so we are trying again naturally before we talk about Chlomid and stuff.
My DH works and goes to school Mon and Wed so I hardly see him and he had to work late last night so it's like three days in a row where I see him for like an hour or two before bed and he's so exhausted at that point...
Anyway I can totally relate to how you are feeling but am also THRILLED for all the BFPs and totally agree that God's timing is best even if it doesn't fit with our desired timeline. (I REALLY WANT A NOVEMBER BABY!)
Rom 8:28 and Jer 29:11 GREAT verses for today and some of my favs.
Hope your Wednesday starts looking up soon girl!
I'm bluesy too - must be something in the air.
I spend a lot of time on all this TTC crap - temp, opk's, green tea, bumping, reading everything I can get my hands on, etc, and sometimes I wonder if that is harming the process. I'm so early still (cycle 3) but it seems like something so all-encompassing can't be healthy. Yet I'm afraid if I skip one thing it'll blow my chances. Catch 22.
*sigh* just need to keep on keepin' on.