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Sexy dreams, but no mojo in real life...

rayandbritrayandbrit member
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I have these dreams where I am like a feen and it's all I think about/ want to do, then I wake up and it's like "wah wahhh." I feel so bad for DH I wish I could be more like my dream self! I just have noooo gumption to get it done!
DD #1 4 years old (09/22/09)
DD #2 2 years old (08/17/11)
DD #3 born 08/29/13
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Re: Sexy dreams, but no mojo in real life...

  • daugustynskidaugustynski
    im right there with you.. im hoping to get somewhat back to normal here soon
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  • rayandbritrayandbrit member
    I hear ya! I just want to feel human again, it stinks feeling this way enough, but I hate that it affects DH and LO :(
    DD #1 4 years old (09/22/09)
    DD #2 2 years old (08/17/11)
    DD #3 born 08/29/13
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  • bnbmillerbnbmiller
    Me too! I feel sooo bad for my husband..  I'm hoping it'll come back in the 2nd trimester.
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  • Tessababy4Tessababy4
    Amen. Sooo frustrating ... no pun intended.
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  • TylerNmeTylerNme

    Ditto, just not into it, even when I try!

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  • MCaplerMCapler

    I am the same way.  I have these crazy horny dreams where I actually feel like I'm having an orgasm. I think I may have really had some too because there have been times that I have woken up and felt it happening.  Very strange.  But in real life I have absolutely no desire what so ever.  I am extremely tired, feel nauseous all day but especially at night, and I feel fat and not sexy at all.  I'm also afraid of bleeding if I do have sex because that happened with baby #1.  It ended up being a polyp that started bleeding.  I freaked out!  I have talked to my husband about having no desire and he has been very understanding.  He knows I'm not feeling good and said he isn't going to push the issue.  I'm hoping once the nausea passes, I will be more in the mood.  We shall see. 

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