TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

Update on me

Got a call this morning that my grandpa died (he was given 2 months to live due to a fast spreading cancer that came back). Even though we know he didn't have much time, I just didn't expect it to be so soon. We were going to have a birthday party for my brother tonight but we are postponing it for now.

 With my cycling, my frozen transfer will be on wednesday. Getting nervous about it, I didn't tell my family I was cycling again. I will be telling them now since I will have to do my progesterone shots while we are with them. I usually tell them when I'm cycling but it really hit me hard this summer to tell them we were cycling and then got a bfp, and shortly after having to tell them we had another loss. 

Jenn

image 3 IUI's all BFN

IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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Re: Update on me

  • I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa.

    And good luck with your FET! That is a lot on your plate. 

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  • Big hugs! I'm so sorry.
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
  • I am sorry to hear about your grandpa.  {{{HUGS}}}  Good Luck with the FET!!!
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  • Big hugs! I'm so so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  ((big hugs))  Wishing you tons of luck this week.
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  • I am so sorry about your grandpa. ((hugs)) Good luck on Wednesday.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am sorry for the loss of your grandfather (((hugs))). 

    Good luck with your FET on Wednesday. 

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  • *huge hugs*  I'm so sorry about your grandpa.  Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.  FX for your FET!
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  • I am sorry about your grandpa. ((hugs))  I hope that this cylce ends with a BFP and a take homw baby for you.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa.  Hugs.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • I'm so sorry for you loss. (((hugs)))
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  • Oh my gosh, that's so much to deal with! I'm so sorry things have been rough. I hope the FET goes great.
    BFP #1 10/17/09: missed m/c at 7 weeks; BFP #2 10/22/10: chemical pregnancy; BFP #3: 1/28/11

    Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11

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  • I am so sorry about your Grandpa.

    Good luck this cycle. That is a lot of emotional stuff piled on your plate.

    :::hugs:::

  • I'm so sorry about your grandpa.  T&Ps go out to you and your family.

    Good luck Wednesday!!!  Hope things go smoothly...please take care of yourself.

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    1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

    Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • Huge Hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  (((big hugs)))

     I hope all goes well with the FET.

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  • I?m so sorry about your grandfather. Big hugs to you and your family.

     Good luck with your cycle, fingers crossed for you!

    BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
    BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
    BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
    BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13 

    BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
     
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and just everything crashing down at once. Huge hugs!
  • I'm so sorry. (HUGS)

    That is a lot to deal with this week.

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    * PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) * 
    * CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
    * Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d * 
    * PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 * 
    * DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *


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