i know no one loves advice but I was just thinking about this as I was reading all of the labor questions.. If you have an episiotomy, do me a favor and PLEASE take your colace and make sure you have a BM. I'm panicking thinking of the pain I went through with DS1. I was too afraid to poop and when I really HAD to go, it was built up and I couldn't go for 6 days. worst pain i've ever been in

worse than labor pains. ok i've said my piece :-D
Re: those who end up with an episiotomy
OMG...so true! I did take the Colace, and still had problems. I ended up calling the OB around 5 or 6 days to find relief. I ended up taking a laxative (instead of just a softener), and when I ended up going it was horrible pain. Horrible!
This time around I'm going to see if I can get relief a bit sooner.
Lol. I only go about once every 5 or 6 days now. Ha!
I've had a BM every day since, I thought it was going to be worse then it was but I had been taking colace everyday leading up to labor.
They gave me colace in the hospital, and the doc said if I was having any constipation to take a little milk of magnesia.