Infertility

What makes you feel like a grown-up?

Other than having to deal with all the infertility junk...

What have you done that made you feel like a grown up? 

This weekend I was shopping for a floor lamp at JC Penney, and I just thought that it was so very grown up.  I have never bought a lamp before.  All of my lamps were wedding presents.  But that moment was so funny.

Share your stories....

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Re: What makes you feel like a grown-up?

  • When I starting asking for practical things for Christmas. Like a vacuum or a stand mixer, that kind of thing. I actually don't really feel like a grown up...until I have to pay bills!
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  • Prob the fact that we pay our mortgage....and in Manhattan, it;s pretty painful LOL.
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  • Worrying about how to afford a new roof. *sigh*
  • When we have to replace tires on our vehicles or renew our tags.

    When we make decisions for our house, like replacing appliances or redoing the landscaping.

    Also, paying our mortgage never fails to remind me that we are adults..lol 

    TTC since April 2008

    Me: PCOS/Amenorrhea DH: Azoospermia due to Y Chromosome Micro Deletion IVF w/ ICSI on hold until further notice

    Hope

  • Every month when I pay my mortage!!!!!  It's painful but reminds me that I am an adult!!!!!!!! 

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    Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39
    2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
    3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks 
    5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
    D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
    Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
    5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
    FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
    1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
    IVF - May - BFN
    6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
    9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
    10/13 - BFP!!
    It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!

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  • Unfortunately and fortunately, sometimes I feel like I grew up way too fast and missed out on my young adult years, but I wouldn't change it for anything. I considered myself an adult officially the year I turned 21. 2004 was the most successful year of my life. In June I turned 21, in July Dh and I, fianc? at the time, purchased our first house, got married in August and graduated college that December. I was on top of the world and loving life.

    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
    Forever our's October 17th 2012
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  • When I see wrinkles :(  And when I'd rather stay in and watch a movie w/ DH than be out on a Saturday night.

    TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
    2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
    IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
    IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN :(
    IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
    Lap 7/21/10
    IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
    FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!

     

    James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!

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    Surprise BFP - Jack born April 28, 2013 via VBAC after PTL at 33 1/2 weeks!

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  • i agree with a few of you. staying in on weekends, not sleeping in on weekends, getting excited when i get to go to the grocery store, and i asked for a hairdryer and coffe mugs to match our plates. i feel grown up when i feel like ive become boring.
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