VBAC

My "story"

Well, long story short, I scheduled a c-section. I had a lot of reasons, but mostly I was just d.o.n.e. I feel good about my decision at this point. A little part of me wishes I had gotten the VBAC, but I am also really glad that the choice was still mine.

FWIW- I was still not dilated at all, despite weeks of contractions. Whether or not that is relevant, who knows, but it makes me feel a little better about it. Not saying my body wouldn't have kicked into gear at some point, but I was so tired of prodromal labor.... with a 2 year old to take care of. 

But onto the fun part- Ava was born 2/4 at 7:16 am, 8lbs 4.5oz, 20 inches. A whole pound bigger than DD1! She nursed great right after she was born, and then slept.... and slept... and finally nursed again almost 24 hours later. She was with me 100% of the time since she was born, until just now, when the pediatrician came to check her out in the nursery. I was not strapped down, I was very lucid, and they were very open to doing whatever I wanted to.

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DD1 met Ava yesterday, and was in love. She ignored her some, and then was very concerned about her some. She will be back today, then I will be glad to be home tomorrow and having both my girls with me!

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  • Congratulations Reese! Ava is absolutely gorgeous and you must be so proud of now being a mom of two wonderful girls. I'm glad that you were able to make a decision that you were comfortable with. I think that it is so important for all of us, regardless if we end up with a rcs or vbac, to be in charge of making that decision. More then anything I hope that you have a speedy, painfree recovery. Congrats again!
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  • Congrats again!  She is so sweet.  I'm so happy you were able to make the decision that felt right for you.  Smile

    I would love to hear more about her birth if you would like to share. 

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  • Congrats hun! she's gorgous.

    There is no shame in a rcs. Whats important is that you got to make the choice.

    Enjoy your girls and I hope you have a quick recovery.

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  • She is so adorable! No matter what, I am glad for you that everything that happened was YOUR choice. 
  • Congrats again!  You had a very supportive doc and it was YOUR choice, so that's awesome! 

    Did you have any sort of c/s birth plan in place or requests that you could suggest (if you get the chance of course)? 

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  • Congrats!! So glad to hear everything went well with you and Ava! She's a cutie!!
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  • Congrats!  I agree- you made your own decision and that is what matters.  Sounds like you had a really supportive medical team and that is great.  And a healthy adorable baby!
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  • Congratulations, your daughter is beautiful. I hope you have a speedy recovery.
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  • Congrats! I think the biggest problem I had with my c/s was that the decision was taken from me. I think if it had been my choice I would have had an easier time with the recovery (both physically and emotionally).

    Btw, she's such a cutie!! 

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  • Oh she is so precious! Congratulations!

    I think it is great and empowering that you were able to make the choice that was right for you. I'm so glad that it went well!

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  • congratulations!!  I am glad you were able to make the best decision for your circumstance.  : )
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  • Congratulations on your healthy baby girl and for a delivery that was YOUR choice.

    Take care.

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  • Congratulations!  I am so glad that you ended up being at peace making such a tough decision.

    Ava is beautiful and the picture of your 2 DDs together is amazing.  Enjoy your new family!

  • Congrats on baby Ava's birth!  Sorry you didn't get a VBAC, but it sounds like you are at peace with the decision.  Hope you have a speedy recovery and an easy newborn.
  • Welcome Baby Ava!  Reese she is absolutely beautiful.  Congratulations to you!  How she was born is irrelevent... What is important is that you are happy with your experience!  Hoping your recovery is going well!  Enjoy that new baby girl!

    ~Sweet Girl *8/18/08* c-section ~ Sweet Boy *12/2/10* VBAC ~ Sweet Boy *8/14/12* VBAC~ 

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  • Congratulations!  Both your girls are so beautiful!  enjoy every minute with them.  I am glad that the decision was in your hands.  I am happy for you that you flet in control. I am sure that makes a world of diference. 
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  • Congrats! :)  I'm glad you are happy with your decision and it sounds like you had a good birth experience that you are happy with, and that is all any of us can ever hope for!  She is beautiful!!!! (as is her big sister!)
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