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Frustrated, Angry, and Disappointed

Hubby made it back from his business trip in time but they said my appointment today was too late in the day to be able to do IUI tomorrow.  WTF.  THEY set this appointment and they knew that the goal was IUI this cycle.  I'm officially done with this office as it's not the first time they have effed things up for me.  Ugggghhh!!!!  

Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
*Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • I'm so sorry. I would be upset too if I were you. I hope you can work everything out!

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  • imagetrish212:
    I'm sorry Vo. Do you think they will still let you do it? I would definitely be upset and start looking around if this wasn't the first time the f'ed things up for you. ((hugs))

    No, they have already told me to go home and do TI.  I called the clinic a friend has raved about on the way back home and will be filling out their new patient paperwork.  I'm sick of this BS.


    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • That is so unacceptable.  I can't believe that.  I'm so sorry.  =(
    11/10: IUI #1 =100mg Clomid CD4-8 + pregnyl trigger + IUI = chemical pregnancy
    1/11: IUI #2 = 5mg Femara + trigger + IUI = BFN
    2/11: IUI #3 = injectibles + trigger + IUI = BFN
    IVF #1 April 2011 ER 4/23 w/16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fert., 4 blasts to freeze, 5dt of 2 blasts on 4/28, beta #1 5/7 = 243... beta #2 5/9 = 491....beta #3 5/11 = 1113!!
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  • I am so sorry - that totally sucks. 

     btw - I am now following your blog and have really enjoyed your few posts - we have a similar ttc history....

    GL this cycle!

     TTC #1 since 6/09
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
      3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
    14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573

    1st u/s=
    TWINS!
    It's a Boy and a Girl!

    Born at 34w3d! 
     

  • How frusterating! I would be done with them too. GL with finding a new, much, much better one.
  • Thanks yall.  It really does make me feel some better to have you all to gripe to. 

    imagehootie123:

    I am so sorry - that totally sucks. 

     btw - I am now following your blog and have really enjoyed your few posts - we have a similar ttc history....

    GL this cycle!

    Thank you!  I will subscribe to yours too but I'm afraid it will be bad for my diet!! LOL!


    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • That is so horrible.  I am so sorry.  I would be fed up too, especially since they made the appointment.
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    TTC since 1/2010 - Dx with Stage IV Endo
    11/10 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    12/10 - Unmedicated cycle due to RE not doing treatments in December = BFN
    1/11 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    2/11 - Same sh!t, different month = IUI cancelled due to no response = BFN
    IVF #1 - Start stims (Follistim) 5/10, add in Ganirelix 5/14
    ER 5/21 - 13 retrieved, 7 mature, 5 fertilized; ET 5/26 - transferred one perfect 1AA blast. 3 snowbabies.
    Beta 6/3 - 15.8; Beta 6/7 - 21.8; Beta 6/10 - 7 :(
    FET - Transferred 1 AA blast 7/11. Beta 7/20 - 311! Beta 7/22 - 784!! First u/s 8/10
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  • I'm so sorry.  You have every right to be frustrated!  ((hugs))  Do you have to wait out this cycle due to their incompetence?! Angry
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  • I am so sorry ((hugs)) If you are not happy with your office, I would definitely change. I wasn't happy and just switched to a much better practice.
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  • imageMrsVo:

    Thanks yall.  It really does make me feel some better to have you all to gripe to. 

    imagehootie123:

    I am so sorry - that totally sucks. 

     btw - I am now following your blog and have really enjoyed your few posts - we have a similar ttc history....

    GL this cycle!

    Thank you!  I will subscribe to yours too but I'm afraid it will be bad for my diet!! LOL!

    LOL - totally understand that one!   If you ignore the desserts - it's pretty healthy dinners.  :)

     TTC #1 since 6/09
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
      3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
    14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573

    1st u/s=
    TWINS!
    It's a Boy and a Girl!

    Born at 34w3d! 
     

  • Good for you for moving to someone that will get it right.  There is enough stress in a woman's life when she is ttc  and she doesn't need more from the doctor's office that is suppose to be helping.
  • Ew that is really sucky. I would be done with them too!!

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  • Oh geez.... I am so sorry! Doctors' offices are so screwy. :(

     
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    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

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  • That's so crappy Vo...I hope you can find an office that caters to you better. Why did they make the appt. if they knew it was going to be too late? That doesn't make any sense anyway the egg can be good for up to 24 hours -/+.

    Sorry you have to skip this cycle, I'd be calling offices first thing Monday and see if they'll accept whatever b/w and testing you've already done from your current office so you don't have to start from scratch. 

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    **TTC since 04/09, C/P 02/02/10; 4 weeks, 3 days**
    **Dx: Anovulation, Hypothryroidism, Mild Endo, Pituitary Adenoma (prolactin issues), PAI-1, MFI **

    **7/10: Clomid + TI= BFN**
    **3/2/11: 1st RE appointment**
    **DH= Morph= 2%, Motility= 30%**
    **HSG= All clear!!**
    **3/11: Femara + Pregnyl + TI= BFN**
    **5/17/11: Laparoscopy / hysteroscopy = mild endo**
    **7/11: Novarel + IUI #1= BFN (7mil, 75% motility, 2% morph)**
    **8/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #2= BFN (11mil, 35% motility, 1% morph)**
    **11/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #3= BFN (9mil, 2% morph)**
    **Jan 2012: Follistim (75ius) + IUI #4= CANCELLED due to cyst -put on bcp**
    **Feb 2012: Follistim (75ius) + Novarel + IUI #4.2= BFFN (2.5mil, 13% motility, 1% morph)**
    **Mar 2012: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5= CANCELLED due to 35mm & 14mm cysts**
    **On med break indefinitely...IF Sucks!**

    **Jan 2013: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.2= CANCELLED due to high prolactin level, MRI scheduled, pituitary adenoma found, put on Dostinex**
    **Mar 2013: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.3= CANCELLED due to uterine polyp, surgery scheduled for polypectomy and D&C**
    **03/22/13: Hysteroscopy, polypectomy and D&C**
    **May 2013: Finally got to start a cycle!!! Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.4 = BFFN (6mil, 74% motility, 2% morph)** 

    **Jun 2013: Decide to start IVF**
    IVF w/ICSI #1 (Long Lupron Protocol)
    06/26/13: Start BCPs
    07/02/13: HSG #2= all clear
    07/15/13: Start Lupron 10 ius
    07/25/13: Suppression check
    07/28/13: Start stims (225IUs Follistim + 75IUs Menopur) drop to 5 IUs Lupron
    08/01/13: Monitoring: 12 follicles all about 10mm, E2- 313
    08/04/13: Monitoring: 18 follicles (15mm, 13mm, a few 11mm, rest 10mm or below) E2- 1,505
    Start Augmentin- antibiotic prep
    08/06/13: Monitoring: 13 follicles (18mm, 17mm, rest b/w 15mm-16mm!) Ready to trigger!! E2- 2,248
    08/08/13: ER-- 14R, 13M, 10F 
    08/11/13: One fertilized late, we now have 11 embryos!
    08/13/13: 5dt-- 2 blasts (Sheldon and Penny) 3AA and 3BB, none to freeze
    8/23/13: BFFN... Sheldon and Penny didn't stick**

    **8/29/13: Follow up... bad fragmentation issues. Changing protocol to Antagonist for round #2 coming soon! Also started on 81mg Aspirin after getting blood panel done and found out I have PAI-1**

    **Oct 2013: After large cysts, finally starting IVF #2**
    IVF w/ICSI #2 (Antagonist Protocol)
    BCPs started back in Sept due to cysts
    10/27/13: Start stims (225 IUs Gonal-F + 75 IUs Menopur)
    11/03/13 - 11/05/13: Add Ganirelix to the mix
    11/06/13: 3 follicles at 18mm-- Ready to trigger!
    11/08/13: ER-- 17R, 13M, 8F
    11/13/13: 5dt-- 2 blasts (Luke and Leia) 5AB and 4AB, 1 frostie
    11/20/13- 11/23/13: light positives on FRERs and Wondofos
    11/22/13: BFN per RE office (under HCG of 10)
    11/27/13: CP ::sigh::

    *12/03/13: Follow up...great response and quality this time, was given 50% chance of it working, just didn't stick. Great plan for 2014! 

    **Jan 2014: Last IVF of our SRP**
    IVF w/ICSI, freeze all, then FET
    12/27/13: Start BCPs
    01/19/14: Stims (375 IUs Gonal-F + 75 IUs Menopur)

    Congratulations Cutebride!! --TWINS!! Congratulations, Luvie, on your sweet boy! Congrats, Jess! So happy for you ladies! <3<3  
    ~~Also best of luck to Kati, illinigal, and youngin!~~

    *S/PAIFW*

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  • imagepunkymama:
    I'm so sorry.  You have every right to be frustrated!  ((hugs))  Do you have to wait out this cycle due to their incompetence?! Angry

    No we don't have to totally skip this cycle - we can still do TI.  We will just have to wait until next month (or however long it takes to get into the new clinic) for IUI if this time doesn't take.  I don't have much hope for this one since our last TI cycle we had 2 follies and a BFN.  This time I only had one mature follie :(  


    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • Zook - this is not the first time they have made a major scheduling error.  My last medicated cycle, they messed up the scheduling for one of my monitoring appointments and what should have taken an hour ended up taking 2.  Very frustrating.  I also don't understand why they can't still make it work.  I honestly think they just don't want to do it.  And that p*sses me off even more. 

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • I'm so sorry:(  I can't stand when something so simple as scheduling gets screwed up.  Do you think you should talk to the office manager about what has happened?

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  • Im sorry Mrs Vo! That is very stinky of them! I really hope you find a new place that accommodates you much better! GL! *hugs*
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  • I'm SO sorry - how frustrating!!!  Good luck with a new office!
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