Pregnant after IF

Update: TTTTS and Preterm labor!! Long...

Let me start by saying that this pregnancy is kicking my arse!! I feel emotionally drained...

So I was sent to Miami to see the specialist regarding TTTTS. I get there and the Dr. decides he wants to monitor me for a few days before deciding weather or not to do the laser surgery. The babies where worse than when I left. Baby B was cocooned in his sac. Things to me looked bad. He started measuring my cervix and I noticed it got a tad shorter than a week before. But no big deal still in the normal range. He said he wanted to see me back on Friday and then on Monday. But my flight for home was on Saturday the 22nd. I had to cancel my flight and was penalized and we had to keep waiting to see what would happen. I was a mess. My first appointment was on my Birthday so I was not too happy. Since it was only Tuesday and we weren't due back until Friday MH decided to drive me up to Orlando to celebrate my birthday. We had as much fun as we could considering the reason we where down there. I came back on Friday and still not enough of a bad change for the surgery. Now we are due back on Monday so we are stuck longer than we anticipated to be. I come back on Monday the 24th and somehow the babies got better. Baby B had more fluid and Baby A was doing amazing. The only problem was my cervix got a little shorter again. I was at 2.4. So we went straight to the airport to fly home immediately I was missing DS and my dogs...

So we get home and my next follow up with my MFM is on Thursday the 27th. They needed to finally get my anatomy scan done. So I go in and I tell the tech she needs to measure my cervix and I almost had to insist. SO she measured it and moved onto the scan. Both babies are measuring right on track. Baby B now have 4.5cm of fluid it went up 2 cm since Monday. I was beyond excited. My MFM comes in and tells me I have to go straight to the hospital for monitoring. Looks like I have preterm labor going on... They hooked me up to a machine and a few hours later my Dr. walks in and tells me I need a cerclage and they will do it first thing in the morning. I was a mess and started freaking out. MH came straight from work and brought DS with him.

Morning comes and they start moving me to the OR. I start trembling so bad they can't get the spinal tap in. I finally calmed down and they where able to get it done. The anesthesiologist was great and she helped get me calm. They prepped me and got me on this table. About 20 mins in I felt like I was going to pass out. I hear my MFM ask for an OB to come in and assist. I started feeling pain and started freaking out again. Next thing I know the anesthesiologist says she is giving me something to keep me calm. I got a shot and then I woke up in recovery with MH by my side. 

The MFM comes into my room to explain what went on... Turns out my cervix was real soft so when he grabbed it he caused a tear and I started to bleed out. I needed a blood transfusion. MH was beyond pissed off. I had no idea how to feel. He said that the cerclage was placed and that the babies are doing great. I was put on bed rest in the hospital. I needed 2 different antibiotics that where so bad on my veins, I kept needing a new IV. By the 5th IV and 20 something poke I was done. My MFM let me go with out it. I finally got home on Monday and on modified bed rest. My follow up is on Thursday and I am scared shitlesss to go! Thank You Ams for helping me get through this... 

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Re: Update: TTTTS and Preterm labor!! Long...

  • Wow!  What a scary ride! So glad your babies are looking good and the cerclage is in place.
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  • Omg hon you poor thing with all that you have been through.  I can't believe it.  But I hope this means that things will be smooth and manageable for you and the babies from here on out.  Good luck and *hugs*
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  • I'm so sorry you had to go through that!  What a terrible experience.  At least you can rest at home now and be with your family.  You and your LO's are in my t&p's.
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  • I just want to give you some (((hugs))).  I am sorry you and your babies are going through such a rough time.
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  • I am so sorry you had to go through this whole ordeal. I am so happy that you updated becasue I was thinking of you these past few weeks. Glad to hear the little ones are doing much better!! I bet you are glad to be home even if you are on modified bedrest!!
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  • I'm so sorry you have had such a rough ride lately. I hope the babies continue to do well, and you can get some much needed rest. ((BIG HUGS)) 

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  • This sounds like a lot to handle- I cried. Glad you're home and resting. Hang in there!!!! ((hugs))
  • Oh my goodness.  I am so sorry that you have had to go through this terrible time, but I'm glad that you and your LOs are at home and are doing better.  You are one strong mama.
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  • Wow! I am so sorry you had to go through all that. I'm glad the cerclage is doing its thing. I'll be sending you lots of baby stay put vibes! (((hugs)))
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  • Oh, Mari!  That is so scary!  I am glad you are doing better and are home now.  I hope your appointment on Thursday goes well.  You and your boys are continually in my T&Ps.  Take care, hon. 

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    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

  • Oh no Mari!!  I'm so sorry!  What a horrible experience :(  I'm glad to hear the babies are doing well.  Take care of yourself!!  You will continue to be in my thoughts.
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  • OMG! You have been through a lot hon!

    I am so glad to hear that the babies look like they are improving :)

    I can't imagine how scary your hospital experience was. Thank goodness you and the babies are okay. Hang in there!

    (((((hugs))))) 

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  • Wow...that's a lot for anyone to handle. I am glad you are hope for now and they were able to get the cerclage in place and the babies are ok.
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  • Wow-how scary- I am glad you are doing better and am praying that the cerclage does the trick and your angels stay put.  *Hugs*
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  • Thank you ladies for your T&P's! We really appreciate it... I forgot to mention that MH is a real mess... Poor guy is having a hard time with all this. He was a mess in Miami and even worst now! 
  • OMG I am so, so sorry! What a ride indeed :( Continued T&Ps for you and your LOs!
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  • I have been thinking about you and your boys like crazy, and will continue to do so. ((big hugs))
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  • Oh Mari, what an ordeal!  I'm so glad both boys are doing well.  Lots of T&P head your way for a smooth appt on Thursday.  Heaven knows you deserve it.

    Keep us posted!! 

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  • Oh my gosh Mari, how scary!! :( You poor thing.. I'm going to continue sending all the good thoughts I can for your boys. Happy to hear that they're both doing good though.. they need to stay put!

    Thinking of you, Mari.. (((huge hugs)))

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  • Oh, mari, I am so sorry you are going through all this!  I hope it's much smoother sailing from here on out and those babies stay put for a good ling time.
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  • Oh wow...I am so sorry you are going through all this!  I hope your next appt goes great and I am glad to hear the babies are hanging in there!


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  • I am so sorry for everything you have been through sweetie.  I hope the rest of your pregnancy is as uneventful as possible.  I have been keeping you and your boys in my T & Ps.  ((big hugs))
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    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
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    I'm so sorry you had to go through that!  What a terrible experience.  At least you can rest at home now and be with your family.  You and your LO's are in my t&p's.
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  • Oh darling...  This sounds so scary!  I hope you're able to get good news on Thursday!  I'm glad to hear the babies are doing well, and I hope that you're able to be well, too!! 

    Thinking of you... 

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  • Oh, Mari. That's so horrible.  I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this.  You reallly don't deserve all this pain. T&P to you and your LOs.


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  • WOW! I just cannot believe all you have been through.  I am glad you're doing better and the babies are looking good.  Hope things are smooth sailing from here sweetie. You are one strong lady.  T&P's your way!
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  • Mari! Oh my gosh, what an ordeal.  I've been thinking of you all and hoping the bad news was done.  I'm glad the boys are doing so much better but sorry for all that you've been through!  Hang in there, pretty mama.  You're doing a wonderful job.  *hugs* I think of you all the time.
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  • Gosh, Mari, that's so scary! You and the babies are in my thoughts and prayers, sweetie!
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  • Oh geez. I'm sorry about all of this Mari. What a giant clusterfvck. The good news is that the babies are doing well. I've got all my positive thoughts heading toward you (((hugs)))
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  • oh my lord mari.  You are such a champ for doing all those things to save those amazingly strong babies.  I'm rooting for you and every day that goes by.  Much love!

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  • OMG! I'm so sorry you are going through all of this. I hope your next appointment is wonderful and you just get to relax and ease your mind a bit.
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  • Wow...what a rollercoaster ride! You and loved ones will remain in T&P. I can't even imagine how scary it is for you.  Keep thinking about how well those babies are doing in there though.
  • Oh Mari I'm so so sorry you've been through this.  I'm so glad the boys are doing okay, though.  Please if you ever need anything don't hesitate to ask, you know where to find me <3
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