TTC After a Loss

I've been told I'm a very patient person...

Clearly those people don't know me well. I have no patience for TTC. I swear I am debating POAS right now. It's 8DPO but it's later in the day so I keep thinking it's almost 9DPO, and I saw a few BFPs on 9DPO while lurking on Oct moms.

I suck. Someone virtually smack me please?

 

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Re: I've been told I'm a very patient person...

  • Don't do it!!!  I POAS on before DPO 10 and it was a BFN.  Did the same thing on DPO 10 and another BFN.  I was so sad on Sunday because of it, I let it ruin half the day.  (Hoping yours is a BFP though - FX for you!)

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  • Your chart looks pretty awesome. If it were me, I probably (no I know I would have) POAS this morning and afternoon. GL!!

     

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  • Lol, I'd be testing because I'm crazy and impatient too! So I have nothing good to say to encourage you not too! Good luck!

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  • Be strong Ginger!  Save the little stick for the morning!  Let it live another day!

    (Sorry - best I could do.  Your chart looks great and I have FX for you on both hands!).

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  • I am the same way!!  Very impatient!  If you do decide to poas and get a negative, just try to remember its early and people have gotten BFP after getting BFN at 9 and 10 dpo!  Good luck!  I hope this is your cycle!
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  • Don't do it!!!! You can hold out until tomorrow!! LOL
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    Clearly those people don't know me well. I have no patience for TTC. I swear I am debating POAS right now. It's 8DPO but it's later in the day so I keep thinking it's almost 9DPO, and I saw a few BFPs on 9DPO while lurking on Oct moms.

    I suck. Someone virtually smack me please?

     

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  • I vote for Friday.  On Friday you'll be 11 DPO, so chances of seeing a BFP are higher, and since it's a weekday, you can still call the doctor and make an appt for betas that day in the event of a BFP.  That's my outsiders opinion....but if I were you I would probably still POAS tomorrow morning. :)
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    I am the same way!!  Very impatient!  If you do decide to poas and get a negative, just try to remember its early and people have gotten BFP after getting BFN at 9 and 10 dpo!  Good luck!  I hope this is your cycle!

    That's the problem...POAS at 9 or 10DPO is pointless because if it's negative I just talk myself into it being too early so it doesn't do anything to stop my MF. 

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  • Hang in there, Ginger, it's still pretty early!  You can't change the outcome right now anyway...could you read a book to keep your thoughts occupied?  You're in my prayers tonight, I would love for you to join Cashew at the end of the week! =)

    ETA:  Changed "Megin" to Ginger!  So sorry!

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  • Don't set yourself up for dissapointment!  8DPO is way too early still.  I was good this past cycle and tested at 11 DPO.  Before that, I was really bad.  Keep yourself busy!

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    LOL

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  • Be strong and don't POAS today--I agree with pp who said to wait until Friday--

    but i'm on 6 dpo and i've been fighting the urge to POAS myself, when i know its totally ridiculous!  

    but GL and FX for you!!! I hope this is your month too!!! 

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  • Wait! WAIT! WAAAIT! If you can help it, that is.

    What day was Cashews' BFP? 13DPO? Lucky #13??? Wait for it!

    Ginger, I really hope this is your month! My fingers, toes, eyes, arms and legs are crossed!

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  • Well I say ATTENTION Ginger's ute I DEMAND you find yourself occupied by 8am Friday February 4th 2011 and put her on that bfp wave!!

    Ok so that being said I can't tell you not to poas because I would be doing it first thing in the morning.  Heck I will poas by the 5th or 6th and I'm not even sure I ovulated.

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  • I'm not much help I POAS just to see the BFN so I can stop obsessing that it's too early to test.....
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  • I hear you...I had my IUI on Jan. 21st and 22nd, but they I was given a trgigger booster on Thursday of last week.  I want to POAS so bad, but I am VERY afraid.  I know that if it is a BFP, I will be excited, but question if it is still the trigger and if it is a BFN I will try to convience myself that it is too early...so, with that said, I am going to try and hold off until my beta on Monday.  Plus, with blizzard 2011 in Chicago and no sticks, I may be good :)  Good Luck to you :)
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  • No matter how hard i try to wait I never can.... so I say go for it!
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    I vote for Friday.  On Friday you'll be 11 DPO, so chances of seeing a BFP are higher, and since it's a weekday, you can still call the doctor and make an appt for betas that day in the event of a BFP.  That's my outsiders opinion....but if I were you I would probably still POAS tomorrow morning. :)

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    I vote for Friday! GL Ginny!!! 

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  • Keep holding out! You can do it! Fingers crossed for you!!
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  • I thought this was going to be about your SN....lol

     

    Hold out!  You can do it, just a few more days!

    *hypocrite* 

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