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CD 1 today :(

So, here I am again on cd 1.  I'm entering my 6th month ttcal, and really thought this time around I could be a FH.  DH and I had a talk tonight about how long we would ttc for #1.  We decided that we only want to try for a few more years and would be perfectly happy with just one LO.  He asked me if I think it's him or me that's the prob. I'm not KU yet.  I told him about the 20% chance per month blah, blah, boring stuff.  Sometimes I think it's him that's more bummed by AF month after month. 

I also realized something very strange. If I would O on cd 19 (which I have before a few times) I would be 12 dpo on my first edd and could possibly get a + that day.  It could be a bittersweet kind of thing if it would actually happen.  I'm weird that I sit her and calculate that kind of stuff.

Now I'm off to Amazon to place my order for cheapie opk/hpt's, vitamins and more preeseed.  Yay for me.

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  • I'm sorry about CD1 *HUGS* its not weird to calculate that stuff, I do it too. Its good to be hopeful through it all. Have you talked to your doc about getting any testing done if you are ttc much longer?
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  • I'm sorry all around.  (((hugs)))  You're not weird to calculate the dates, etc.; we all do that.  Again, sorry AF has shown her ugly face.


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  • Sorry hon. We're in the same boat here.  I'm also at my 6th month TTC our first.

    I know we were both March Mommas and I was really hoping for a BFP before my first EDD.  So basically, there's just one more shot here.  I hate doing this to myself...First I wanted a BFP before my Bday....that didn't work and now this goal.  People keep telling me to have faith, and that's really all I have left.  That and thankfully all the support I've received from all of you.

     

    Sending big hugs to you and DH. 

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    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
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  • I'm sorry ((big hugs)).
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    I'm sorry about CD1 *HUGS* its not weird to calculate that stuff, I do it too. Its good to be hopeful through it all. Have you talked to your doc about getting any testing done if you are ttc much longer?

    If this next cycle doesn't work out I will prob. talk to them.  I also want to switch to a new female Dr. that just joined, so I might just make a new patient apt. with her and talk about the next steps. 

    I now wish we didn't wait so long to start ttc in the first place.  We waited till we were ready in every aspect, and I'm sure we would have been just fine if we would have tried years ago.

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    imageIzabella22:
    I'm sorry about CD1 *HUGS* its not weird to calculate that stuff, I do it too. Its good to be hopeful through it all. Have you talked to your doc about getting any testing done if you are ttc much longer?

    If this next cycle doesn't work out I will prob. talk to them.  I also want to switch to a new female Dr. that just joined, so I might just make a new patient apt. with her and talk about the next steps. 

    I now wish we didn't wait so long to start ttc in the first place.  We waited till we were ready in every aspect, and I'm sure we would have been just fine if we would have tried years ago.

     

    I think about that almost every day now. 

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    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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  • I'm right there with you on CD 1.  I'm so very sorry.  ((Hugs to You))  FX for a lucky February.
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    BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid)
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  • I'm so sorry about CD1 No

    I think we all calculate dates. I hope you get your BFP soon. Have some wine, you deserve it tonight!

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  • I am sorry, (((hugs))).  I will certainly keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and I have FX for you to have a 2011 baby.  I hope this next cycle is truly the one.
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  • So sorry about AF-she is really a beotch!!  Its not weird at all that you calculate dates around getting a BFP.  I'm sure many of us do this-I know I do!

    I hope you get your BFP and take home baby real soon!!  {{{Huge Hugs}}}

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  • I'm sorry about CD1.  TTC is so stressful and such an emotional rollercoaster.  Try to spoil yourself today and FX that this is your cycle.
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    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
    BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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