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AW: DH (baby mentioned)

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Last night I was laying on the couch and out of no-where I start crying.. thinking about how this time next week we will have a baby in our lives and it won't be ours.. I am dreading FH-IL delivering.. I am dreading the first time I see little J.I know I'll love him.. after all he is going to be my baby BIL but I can't help but think about how I should be right behind, having a baby in March.

As this next week keeps getting closer I find myself more emotional.. as my EDD creeps closer I am more emotional, even being on this TTC break.

Last night as I laid there crying, DH put on some songs that we listened to when we were kids (Ice, Ice Baby anyone?) and started singing and dancing to them. It was soo funny I couldn't help but laugh.. I am so lucky to have a husband that would do anything to make me laugh and smile even in my darkest times.

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  • TapatioTapatio
    Your DH sounds like a sweetheart! I'm glad he made you laugh when you were feeling so down. ((hugs)) Now thanks to you, I have "Ice,Ice Baby" playing in my head! lol
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  • HadleySHadleyS member

    (((HUGS)))  What a rough night!  I am so glad that your DH knows just what to do to make you smile.  That stunt would be way of my my hubby's comfort zone, so I have to admit, I'm a little jealous about that!  I hope he continues to take good care of you and I wish that you have some good news of your own to share soon.  Hopefully you will follow Cashew's lead and get outta here soon. =)

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  • OatoaOatoa member
    I am so sorry you're having a rough time of it.  Thank goodness for fabulous DHs.  Hope today goes a little better.  Hugs to you.

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  • tigers413tigers413
    DH wins major points!!!! ((hugs))
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    That is so sweet! A DH that can make you laugh is really important!
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  • KristipieKristipie member

    "Alright, stop, collaborate and listen!"

    Yay DH for being so supportive and knowing you so well. (((Big hugs))) for you during all of this.  You always have support here and it sounds like good support from DH too.

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  • jertiejertie member
    That was so sweet of him!  What a guy!  I am sorry that you're sad.  Upcoming EDDs have a way of magnifying emotions when they approach and it's just awful.  ((BIG BIG HUGS))  I'll be thinking of you.

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    Sounds like you have a good dh.

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