I'm curious b/c I stopped BCP over a year ago, so H and I have been using the pull-out method ever since. We just started TTC last month with no luck.
So I'm kinda wondering if the pull-out method actually works, or if I should be concerned about fertility.
I'm trying not to worry about it with just 1 month of actually TTC. Thoughts?
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This. The OP actually made me giggle!
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MH insists he was 100% accurate though, lol!
Think of it this way, you only have about a 20% chance of conceiving on any one cycle, and that is when YH is...ahem "giving it his all", so think of how less likely it is to get PG when using the pull out method.
There is no reason to worry.
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Ok, that is hilarious. I totally LOL'd.
RE: pullout method, no idea, we used condoms.
This is what I was thinking as well!
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I think I understand what you're getting at.
MH and I used "pull and pray" for the past approx. 6 years. He insists that he was 100% dead on with this. But, you hear of SO many women saying that is how they got KU. So, when we started ttc around August, I was wondering the same thing. Like, hmm I wonder how I DIDN'T get KU all that time???
I do NOT think there is any reason to worry about anything at this time, after one month, that is for sure, but I wanted to let you know that I too "wonder" the same thing.
I am in the same boat as you. My husband and I used withdrawal as birth control and never had any scares. This past month was our first month of trying to conceive with no luck. I can not help but wonder if the reason we never had any accidents was because there is something wrong.
However, like some previous posters said you only have 20% of getting pregnant each month. So it is actually pretty difficult. I know I constantly have to remind myself of the the facts to keep from jumping to conclusions and having a freak out.
Good luck to you!
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he he he... this is funny.
and i also want to know, if you weren't sure it would work, why did you use the pull out method as birth control? did you not care if an accident came along? if so, then that's totally fine, but if you really really really didn't want to get PG in that time it's pretty irresponsible to do a technique that you haven't researched and checked if it will even work...
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I was using the pull-out method after about 10 years of birth control and medical reasons for stopping.
I started using the pull-out method AFTER we got married, so I did NOT need a 100% effective method. If we would have conceived, that would have been wonderful. However, I was not TRYING to conceive. Now, I am trying.
Thanks for those who understand what I'm getting at. I'm not worried after 1 month of trying - but wondering if using this method is actually like 13 months.
Apparently not so, it is rather effective, it looks like. I actually found one stat that said it can be about 90% effective.