At the risk of sounding like a whining, woe-is-me person I am going to ask you guys your opinion of this. And no worries I have my big girl pants on and want your honest opinion. I have two very close friends from college. One lives in Valdosta (4hours from me) and the other outside of Tallahassee (5 hours from me). Valdosta has a 10 year old and 7 year old and Tally has a 6 year old and a new baby who will be 1 year old in March. The new baby will be 1 four days after Ava?s birthday. She asked when I was doing Ava?s birthday and it turned out to be the weekend she was wanted to do her kid?s but she changed it. Then Valdosta sends me an email asking if I would mind meeting them ? way instead of us going to everyone?s birthday parties. Now I know a kid?s birthday party isn?t that big of a deal but I have been to almost all of their kid?s parties over the past 10 years. I told her we can do that but I will be going to Tally kid?s party as well. She said forget it then. So today I get an email from Tally about something else and I asked her how she felt about Valdosta?s idea? She said I think it is a good plan b/c then we can spend more QT together. I get that but I can?t help but feel as if my kid is getting cheated b/c I have been to all of their kid?s parties. So I told her honestly I was offended that Valdosta would even ask that b/c of the above mentioned reasons. She responds by saying every time she talks to me it is always drama. I am sorry but when I feel as if my kid is being cheated I will say something. They could come to the party and then we could plan another weekend to get together. Do you guys think I am over reacting? What would you do?