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Tarah716 (re:maternity leave)

Hi. It seems so strange to me to be paging you over here, but since it is BR I'm trying to respect the TN girls :)

I saw below that you are going back to work after 4 weeks. And I'd like to know more...is this b/c its your company policy? How did you come to his decision??

Im asking becasue I just found out my company maternity leave policy is 4 weeks (unpaid),  there are 10 of us and so there's no FMLA, and my bosses have determined that the company cannot afford for me to be gone longer than 4 weeks. I've basically been in tears every time I think about leaving a 4 week old baby and returning to my office. So.. any moral support of hope you can give me would be appreciated.

Feel free to PM if you'd rather! TIA!


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Re: Tarah716 (re:maternity leave)

  • We don't have a company policy for maternity leave - it's a 99% male dictated workplace and we too do not fall under the FMLA for family leave.  Our maternity leave is 100% unpaid - no matter how long it is.  

    I was originally going to take six weeks off, use my two weeks of vacation to get at least two weeks of paid leave and then come back.  But I realized there was no way we were going to be able to survive a month without my paycheck - we would be so far behind on bills and so tight.  Since Jason just got a new job it'll help out but we still need my paycheck to help us get back up to speed quicker.

    I'm very sad about having to come back after 4 weeks, my MIL is going to have to watch the baby for two weeks because the daycare center we're using won't take the baby until they're 6 weeks old.  But I have to do what I have to do and I know that the baby will be well taken care of and loved at each spot. 

    It'll work out - it might be really hard at first but it'll be OK, I have to trust that.  I'm sure once I figure out a new schedule it won't bother me as much.  

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