Parenting after 35

TTC vent

This makes the second cycle where clomid didn't work...and a total of 8 months of trying. I know there are people who have been trying literally for years and that I'm fortunate to have a beautiful daughter already. Still, seeing that drop in temperature this morning was so disappointing. suspect we're off to the RE. Sigh.
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Re: TTC vent

  • I so hear you, I'm sorry. I'm already at the RE, this was sort of a free month because we weren't supposed to get to try this month but events conspired so that we could. Sounds like we've been trying the same amount of time, and I also had a temp plummet just this morning. It sucks big time.

    There's a secondary IF board on here if you haven't stopped by there yet, full of awesome ladies who've already got at least one kiddo, so you don't risk upsetting anyone who is still waiting for their first little one.

    {{HUGS}}

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  • Hugs to you both. I don't have any great inspirational words. Just that I know it's so hard month after month. Sorry you have to go through this.
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  • Hang in there.  Sending massive loads of baby dust your way. 
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  • I'm sorry. It really svcks. Just because other people have it worse, doesn't mean that you can't be upset about your own issues.
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  • Sorry sweety. It is so dissapointing to get that freakin period! I am with you trying. I have been meaning to make an appt with RE. I am a big procrastinator. That's why it took me over 5 years to get pg 1st time. Now I don't have any time to waste since I'll be 42 in 17 days.
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  • Sorry. I hope everything works out for you.Good luck!
  • Boo! I'm so sorry, Monica.
  • Sending you good vibes...
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  • I am so sorry. This sucks. Sending good baby vibes!
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  • I'm so sorry, that is so frustrating.  And I agree with pp, that just because you have something to be grateful for with having a child already, does NOT mean you're not allowed to be frustrated, pi$$ed off, angry, or just sad about struggling with getting pg.  Hang in there and I hope things go better for you very, very soon.
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  • Awww, booo!  I am sorry your temp went kaplooey.  :(
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  • Even the couple of times that we did it around ovulation, I still had the tiniest hope that maybe... and then AF showed up. I was disappointed even though we were not really trying yet. And the kicker is that now my cycle is shorter, which I read happens in your 40s, so that can't be good news for my fertility. I should chart my BBT to see what my LP is doing but I don't want to obsess about that again.

    I honestly don't look forward to TTC again, it was so nerve-wracking the entire year we tried for LO, I don't know how to make it more fun. DH says just relax, but we all know those words don't mean sh!t when you want to get pregnant. Sending baby dust to you and I hope you get pg soon! ((hugs))

    Me: 44 DH: 42. DS born healthy at 40 weeks 8/24/09. TTC since then with no luck or ART. Surprise BFP 8/6/14... MMC @ 8 weeks 4 days... Miss you everyday sweet baby angel.
  • I am sorry to hear about the temp drop.  I think you have a great deal of sympathy on this board. We had a hard time conceiving because I have the fertility of a Panda Bear and DH does not "perform" well on a schedule. 
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