Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Newbie needs to vent
So at 9w I miscarried and am still going thru the stages of that. I didnt realize I would be so upset, but I realize that I am putting my hurt feelings into anger feelings. I did not tell my staff at work why I was gone for a few days because of my reaction to them... they ALL had unplanned preg in their teens and early 20s. How can they relate? A few of them have thrown out the idea that I am preg b/c I missed a couple days, but my responce is "hardly".
I need help in finding a way not to be outward angry and inward sad. this is no ones fault and harder than I originally thought. It keeps getting harder...I want to move on.
Thanks for listening, I dont mean to be so angry.
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Re: Newbie needs to vent
The exact same thing happened to me the day I returned from my D&E, a secretary asked me if my morning sickness was so bad I had to stay home. She didn't know was pg, she was just fishing for gossip.
I completely understand the anger though. Your feelings are normal and healthy and they need an outlet. Some ladies have blogged or journaled their experience. For me, the ladies here were a big help. My IRL support tried to be supportive, but none of them could relate except my mom who had her own loss. I think it was very therapeutic for both of us to discuss how we felt. The bulk of the daily support that I relied on came from this wonderful group of women.
i am so sorry, but know that your anger is completely normal, and you need to release it some how! and this board is a great place to get it out, and feel the support!
{{big hugs}}
DD #1 born 10/21/03
DD #2 born 2/8/06
DS no hb 11/17/10 at 21w1d, d&e 11/24,demise due to fetal hydrops, from congestive heart failure, probably caused by structural malformation
Our Rango....BFP 2/6/11...hb on 2/23...perfectly healthy, but no hb on 6/9/11 d & e 6/15/2011
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