TTC After a Loss

I am stressing

I am really getting anxious about going home..I cannot wait to see my family  but I don't know what to expect when I see my aunt....and to top it off I havent even started packing I should get off the computer and do thatStick out tongue..there is no real point to this except I needed to vent  I just don't want to act awkward  when I see her..ughhhhhTongue Tied
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  • Big hugs! It'll be great.
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  • Best of luck going home and seeing your aunt! Have a safe trip!


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  • ((HUGS))  I'm sure everything will be just fine!  Have a great trip!
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  • Big hugs Jen. I went through a similar experience when I had to see my dying grandmother and had to fly to see her also. It must be a very tough time for you so know that we're all thinking of you and your family.

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  • and another dumb thing ..do you think I can bring the clearblue easy monitor on the plane? I am not checking baggage they may look at me weird when it goes through but I dont want it taken awayGeeked
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    and another dumb thing ..do you think I can bring the clearblue easy monitor on the plane? I am not checking baggage they may look at me weird when it goes through but I dont want it taken awayGeeked

    I don't see why not! Didn't someone take their urine with them on a plane once? Or maybe they tried to do that.... so don't take urin. But do take your CBEFM.


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    Big hugs Jen. I went through a similar experience when I had to see my dying grandmother and had to fly to see her also. It must be a very tough time for you so know that we're all thinking of you and your family.
    I know and we are a VERY emotional family and I dont want to be a blubbering idiot in front of her but I do know if my mom and sisters are there we will all be bawling
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  • *hugs*
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  • Big ((hugs)) judging by how you are here with always the right thing to say I think you will be just what your aunt needs right now. T&p with your family
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  • *HUGS* I'm sorry Jen that is tough, I hope you have a safe flight and your family can give you and idea of how she is doing. I'm sure you will be fine because you are one tough chickie, but sending lots of good thoughts for you and your whole fam.

    And def bring the monitor!

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  • You'll know what to say when you get there. This is one of those things that you can't really plan for. Your aunt will be happy to see you, so let her know how happy you are to see her too.

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    imagejen629:
    and another dumb thing ..do you think I can bring the clearblue easy monitor on the plane? I am not checking baggage they may look at me weird when it goes through but I dont want it taken awayGeeked

    I don't see why not! Didn't someone take their urine with them on a plane once? Or maybe they tried to do that.... so don't take urin. But do take your CBEFM.

    Indifferent..lmfao..I am sure it wouldnt be an issue but if they take it away I blame youSurpriseand I may pee on something to just prove my point to them
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  • (((hugs)))  I hope you a safe trip and I am sure just being there will be enough.  Sometimes it's not what you say, but just caring enough to be there.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. 
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  • I hope it goes well!  You will probably act natural once you are there!  It is just leading up to it...

     Danielle

  • Huge hugs to you.  I remember the anxiety I had going home to a similar situation so clearly.  If its any help, arriving back home and facing what was worrying me really helped, as did being with others who were hurting as much as I was.  As for what to say to your aunt...just be yourself.  Your presence is the key thing there.

    Take care.

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  • thanks ladies...I think I need wineDrinks
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    imagejen629:
    and another dumb thing ..do you think I can bring the clearblue easy monitor on the plane? I am not checking baggage they may look at me weird when it goes through but I dont want it taken awayGeeked

    I don't see why not! Didn't someone take their urine with them on a plane once? Or maybe they tried to do that.... so don't take urin. But do take your CBEFM.

    Indifferent..lmfao..I am sure it wouldnt be an issue but if they take it away I blame youSurpriseand I may pee on something to just prove my point to them

     

    Bahahahaha!! I just had this image of you (even though I don't know you that well) randomly whipping your pants down in the middle of airport security to pee with your monitor in hand! "Its time to check! Don't touch the monitor!"

     

    ETA: T&P to you and your family! Big hugs!

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    imagejen629:
    imageCashewsMommy:

    imagejen629:
    and another dumb thing ..do you think I can bring the clearblue easy monitor on the plane? I am not checking baggage they may look at me weird when it goes through but I dont want it taken awayGeeked

    I don't see why not! Didn't someone take their urine with them on a plane once? Or maybe they tried to do that.... so don't take urin. But do take your CBEFM.

    Indifferent..lmfao..I am sure it wouldnt be an issue but if they take it away I blame youSurpriseand I may pee on something to just prove my point to them

     

    Bahahahaha!! I just had this image of you (even though I don't know you that well) randomly whipping your pants down in the middle of airport security to pee with your monitor in hand! "Its time to check! Don't touch the monitor!"

     

    ETA: T&P to you and your family! Big hugs!

    I would so do itStick out tongue..it is funny because DH cant come with and I am sure I will ovulate over next weekend but I want to keep track just in case I still have a chance when I get back ...and thank you:)
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  • It might be awkward at first.  You'll get past that quickly enough though. 

    Now get your hiney up and pack!  I don't want to read about some crazy lady nekkid in the airport!

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    It might be awkward at first.  You'll get past that quickly enough though. 

    Now get your hiney up and pack!  I don't want to read about some crazy lady nekkid in the airport!

    ok ok I am going lol
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  • Giant Hugs!!!  Will keep you in my prayers for a safe travel and strength.  Prayers also going out to your aunt. 

     

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  • (((HUGS))) Good luck!! It will be fine!
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  • You will have a great time!  *hugs*
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  • I'll be thinking of you this weekend. :::HUGS:::
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  • Sending big hugs, you and your family have been in my thoughts and prayers. I was so nervous to see my grandpa in the hospital after we were told he didn't have much time. There were some tears, but we also had some laughs when we were sharing our favorite memories.

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  • (((hugs)))  I'm sure it will be really tough, but the anticipation is probably really hard too.  I hope everything goes okay.  Will be thinking of you.


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  • ((Big hugs)) Jen

    Have a good trip.

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  • Huge Hugs Jen. I am sorry you are going through this cancer completely sucks.
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  • GL!  (((hugs)))
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  • hugs hon
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  • Thinking of you and sending you ((big hugs)).
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  • Big hugs to you and safe travels. Sending you thoughts and prayers.
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