February 2011 Moms

What is your "selfish desire" about not being pregnant anymore?

Okay...we all are about to have our babies within the next month or so and I know we are all thrilled. I have waited for this baby for over a year after suffering a loss this time last year. I am grateful, I feel so fortunate and blessed and this is something I've wanted so bad.

 That being said, I know we all have something we are so looking forward to after our babies are here. I just wanted to have a random post where we could talk about some things we are excited for - either to have back or to start doing, once these LO's make their appearances. I think specifically I want to focus on fashion, shopping, clothes, that type of thing. : )

 So here are mine: I can't wait to wear dresses and heels again...my feet and lower legs have been super swollen so I don't really want to show off my legs, or wear heels since they make my feet worse. Also, while I know that it will take a while for my body to get back the way I want it (or may never actually get there), I can't WAIT to go shopping!!!! I am excited to buy some new, regular clothes....pants with zippers and buttons...and wear my old shoes again that aren't fitting b/c my feet are too fat. I also can't WAIT to wear my wedding rings again.

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BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

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Re: What is your "selfish desire" about not being pregnant anymore?

  • Clothes - I am tired of the same clothes every week! Half of my maternity stuff doesn't fit right anymore and I'm feeling frumpy. I can't wait to wear jeans that fit right, shirts that hug my figure, and heels! I'm going to work hard to get myself back in shape so I can wear my bikini this summer, I really want to meet that goal.

    Oh and I'm dying to have my hair colored - all over red with lighter highlights like I used to wear it. I miss being a redhead! I also plan to have my tattoo touched up this summer, since I had planned to do it last year and couldn't. It really needs it.

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  • I cannot wait for my legs to stop going numb- I know I won't be getting much more sleep because the baby will be waking up, but I cannot wait to be able to sleep a bit more comfortably. 

     

     

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  • I'm ready to hug and kiss on my little man and become the mom I was born and raised to be.. Oh, and I'd like to be able to put my pants on without having to sit on the bed and be able to see well enough to be able to do some thorough lady-scaping downstairs. I feel so dirty as it is, and DH's smart comments and small complaints aren't helping matters LOL
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  • I am so ridiculously excited to get my body back. I never realized how blessed I was before I didn't have it anymore! I can't wait to go shopping at my favorite stores again. I want to wear my cute jeans and dresses with heels. I also told myself that once I get back to my prepregnancy weight, I could get my hair done again. I can't wait! Oh my gosh, just thinking about it makes me so excited!
  • What I wouldn't give to be able to sleep on my back again!  And, I'm dying to get back into my wine closet!!!
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  • Like the OP said - I can't wait to go shopping!!  I've been saving some money and got some gift cards at Christmas so I can go on a little shopping spree when I'm back down to my pre-PG size.  Wearing pants with zippers and having more of a selection of clothes will also be great.  I also can't wait to wear heels again (or any cute shoes for that matter).  DH bought me an anniversary band to match my wedding band (so I'll have one band on each side of my engagement ring), so I can't wait to wear my rings again!!

    I'm also looking forward to feeling "normal."  I like the thought of being able to actually have a lap for DS to sit on, bend over normally, walk normally, sleep in any position I want, etc. 

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  • Clothing shopping. I am SO due for a VS spree!!

    Sushi. 

    Wearing more than just 2 pairs of pants in rotation because NONE of my other mat. jeans fit anymore. 

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  • I'm totally with you there, OP.  I can't wait to wear my normal clothes again!  Especially now that I'm this far along, there's only a few long-sleeved shirts that still fit me well so I feel like I've been wearing the same things over and over again because I feel like it would be pointless to buy new stuff this late in the pregnancy.  Also, since I have gestational diabetes, I cannot wait to be able to eat sweets again!  I've been craving a raspberry jelly filled doughnut for over 3 months now!  I can't wait to sleep on my stomach and to be able to paint my own toenails... oh, it's such a long list, but mostly, it will just be nice to not have to run to the bathroom every 2 or 3 hours :)
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  • I wish I could say shopping but I haven't been able to do much shopping the last couple of years. Our house is a money pit and I'm pretty sure we've spent over $10,000 on vet bills in the last year alone! YIKES!

    So what I'm looking forward to the most is having my house done after LO is here and being able to put all my decorations back up and do a little furniture shopping, which we've been saving up for! Then I look forward to having friends/family over for dinner again and enjoying a glass of wine and/or a cold brew!

    And I also look forward to taking LO camping and going to the coast to visit our family beach house and to eat baby back ribs this year over Memorial Day weekend! Woohoo!!!!!

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  • I actually don't have any fashion ones really. I've been pretty happy with my maternity clothes, and I managed to shop at my favorite store (forever 21) for a good chunk of this pregnancy.

    Right now my day dream is to be able to take some good medicine to get some relief from this awful congestion (I know I'll still be somewhat limited with BF, but not nearly this bad). And to eat yummy turkey sandwiches again. Mmmmm. Oh and coke. Yeah, I'm pretty much all about the food.

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  • I'm excited for...
    sushi and wine
    being able to roll over in bed without it being a huge affair full of moans and grunts
    being able to snuggle my son on my lap without feeling like he's a mile away
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  • I like this post! Party!!! I have thought a LOT about what I miss througout this whole pregnancy. See my list below, definitely in top wishes order.

    • WINE!!!! BEER!!!! MARTINIS!!! MARGARITAS!!!...Okay..alcoholism cheer over
    • Sushi and lunch meat sandwiches you don't have to warm up
    • Sex...in more than 2 positions
    • Sleeping on my stomach...My gosh I miss that
    • Running, and normal workout stuff I haven't done in months!
    • Putting my boots on by myself
    • Looking the mirror and not seeing chipmunk water cheeks

    Those are my tops!

  • to sleep on my stomach again

    to get rid of this chubby face that has popped up in the last couple of weeks

    to just feel lighter

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  • my list:

    - sleep normally without peeing every half hour

    - wear my shoes

    - wear normal clothes 

    - have delicious beer for my birthday (may)

    :) 

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  • Wine!

    Wearing normal clothes and shopping again.

    Being able to roll over in bed without the crazy hip pain.

    Tying my shoes and putting on socks by myself.

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  • Sleeping on my stomach and back, that would be amazing! Buying new shoes that are actually cute too. Going up the stairs without it feeling like the hugest accomplishment of my life when I make it to the top. Wearing outfits that look different each day, not this two-pant rotation and five same-'ol shirts to choose from. Whitening my teeth and getting highlights are at the top too. Lastly, not having my (loving) husband hovering over me trying to stop me from driving by myself, insisting on getting cups from the top shelf because I shouldn't be stretching my arms so much, and generally just treating my like the most fragile piece of china. Cute at first, getting really old now.....
  • Sleeping on my stomach.

    sushi

    pants with buttons

    normal sized boobs

    different sex positions

    Being able to enjoy a cocktail here and there... or a little wine at the end of a long day.

    fitting into a resturant booth!

    Heels.

    having my old skin back! (I got horrible acne, and PUPPPS!)

     

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  • I can't wait to be able to wear heels again.  Even though I'm kind of tall, I'm a huge heels person and really miss wearing them.  I also miss drinking alcohol.  I love being able to go out and having a few drinks with friends, and I can't wait to be able to do that again.  I also miss sleeping on my stomach, even though I think I still might do that anyways...
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  • I can't wait for my body.. so I can wear clothes again.. (not just yoga pants and the 4 shirts that still fit me..)  Oh yea, and my wedding rings!!

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  • I can't wait for this heartburn to go away.  I finally got a prescription for something, and it's a caetgory B drug, but I'm still afraid to take it.  I took it for 2-3 days in a row and it helped, it was *heaven*.  But I didn't take it yesterday so I'm expecting the heartburn to return tonight.  I just don't want to take it too much, you know?

    I can't wait to have a flat stomach again and wear normal clothes.  I'm a little afraid they will never fit me again, though. I  know my stomach won't be insta-flat after (and maybe never exactly the same again), but you know what I mean!

    I can't wait for the swelling in my legs, ankles and feet to go away.

    I can't wait to be comfortable while sleeping and lounging on the couch.


     
  • I want to ebe able to get sushi again. I want to be able to actually look for a job actively. I want to start working out again so I can look great for the summer. I want to be able to put my own socks on. I have been, but today I think was the last straw and I might have to start gettingup early to shower so that MH can do it for me since I really can't reach anymore.
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  • champagne & wine, please!  all other things have been simply menial as far as im concerned.

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  • * A glass of good wine

    * Sleeping on my back

    * Walking around without waddling

    * Getting rid of my super chubby pregnancy face!

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  • imageTiffanyTheMom:

    Clothing shopping. I am SO due for a VS spree!!

    Sushi. 

    Wearing more than just 2 pairs of pants in rotation because NONE of my other mat. jeans fit anymore. 

    THIS. 

     

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    • a very alcoholic fruity drink with a little umbrella in it
    • kickboxing - i miss my muay thai!
    • being able to take my shoes on and off with ease
    • being able to sleep on my back or on my stomach
    • tattoos! I haven't gone this long without a new tattoo since before my very first tattoo.
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  • A glass of wine and a margarita!

    Sleeping on my stomach.

    My old body back.

    Walking normally and being able to at least walk without huffin and puffin like a sea cow!

    Oh and normal sex! 

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  • Wine!

    Running

    Flat Belly

    Normal Ankles

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  • I can't wait to wear cute little dresses again, sexy heels. Also, I can't wait to not have to be safe and cautious in the bedroom. TMI, but I can't wait for DH to throw me around again...also a nice glass of vino at dinner would be GREAT!!

     Cheers to being mommies soon, but getting some of the ole' exciting things back!

  • Vodka and tonic and belly sleep
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  • I can't wait to have a glass of wine with dinner, workout with feeling like the kid is going to fall out of my vag, not pee every 30 minutes, eat sushi, and use spray paint!
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  • Alcohol.

    I know that makes me sound like a total soak but I am getting tired of my DH sitting down at night and having a nice cold beer while I drink my water. That and just going out to eat and having a nice small mixed drink.

    Beyond that I would also agree with shopping. I don't even look at clothes anything because I have no idea what my body is going to look like after LO comes. I miss clothes that fully cover my belly at all times.

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  • I can't wait to be able to put my own shoes and socks on without giving myself a contraction.  Also, wine, beer, Mike's hard lemonade, and vodka sodas.  Comfy footwear and alcohol is what I'm jonesing for.  :)

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  • Ditto to EVERYONE'S Responses!  this one is the best posts yet :o)  thanks to all of you for the great laughs and rhelping me realizing I'm not the only one who's dying for sushi, wine or a beer, wearing normal clothes again and have a variety rather than the same old outfits every few days, huffin and puffin like a cow, flopping around like a fish outta water at night and how much of a chore it is to just flip over on the other side, dying to sleep on my back n belly, do some grooming down there since i cant even see it anymore and just plain old feel normal again. AMEN mommas!
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