I just had lunch with a friend who is 39 and she just told me she is preggo and due in Aug right before her 40th bday, it took her about 5mos of trying, although this is her 3rd and she had the other 2 after 35 which gives me some hope. I was happy for her and at the same time felt a littel ping in my heart as i know i have been ttc for #2 unsuccessfully! but i am going to gain hope instead of lose it.
I got pregnant with my DD when I was 37 and delivered at 38. I had fibroids removed with a MAJOR myomectomy and had tested 11.5 on my CD 3 FSH test prior to that, so yes, even though I just had a m/c, I believe that there is a TON of hope after 35.....
Re: there is still hope for all of us over 35!