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IF blows!

dejavudejavu
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well after a BFP on Tues, I had some brown spotting yesterday, but it was brown and I was told not to worry.  Beta was today, but now I am bleeding bright red and it's kinda clumpy, so I guess I'm losing this one.  I was so happy to think IVF #1 worked, but I guess we'll be doing a FET at some point.  Oddly, I am ok with this (well as mush as one can be).  I just feel very calm, and am even more thankful to have my son.
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  • SeaSoulSeaSoul member
    where have i been???  i didn't know you did IVF or had a BFP!  i'm so sorry it's looking like this cycle's a bust, but you never know.  glad you're at peace with it, either way.
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member

    oh no :(  I'm so sorry!! :(

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  • dejavudejavu
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    where have i been???  i didn't know you did IVF or had a BFP!  i'm so sorry it's looking like this cycle's a bust, but you never know.  glad you're at peace with it, either way.
    After 5 failed IUI's this go around we decided we needed to be more aggressive and move to IVF.  I got a BFP on Tuesday, but the red blood today.  I didn't want to say much after the September m/c and getting all excited.  I was hoping to be a few weeks along before the announcement.  Guess I don't get to do that now. 
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  • dana316dana316 member

    (((hugs)))

    I'm sorry.

     

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  • muppet.fanmuppet.fan member
    I'm so sorry.
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  • s.s.girls.s.girl member
    IF really does blow. I'm so incredibly sorry. 
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  • hclavalleyhclavalley
    Oh sweetie, I'm so so so sorry. 
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  • stepgirl21stepgirl21 member
    Im sorry.

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  • dundasgirldundasgirl
    I am sorry.  Good luck with your FET. 
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  • SeaSoulSeaSoul member

    imagedejavu:
    imageSeaSoul:
    where have i been???  i didn't know you did IVF or had a BFP!  i'm so sorry it's looking like this cycle's a bust, but you never know.  glad you're at peace with it, either way.
    After 5 failed IUI's this go around we decided we needed to be more aggressive and move to IVF.  I got a BFP on Tuesday, but the red blood today.  I didn't want to say much after the September m/c and getting all excited.  I was hoping to be a few weeks along before the announcement.  Guess I don't get to do that now. 

    Gosh, that really sucks.  I'm so sorry!

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    LO #1 - 1 unmedicated/self-monitored IUI w/ donor sperm.
    LO #2 - 1 m/c, 2 BFNs, 4th IUI worked (unmedicated/self-monitored with new donor sperm).
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  • Waiting4baby08Waiting4baby08
    Sorry you are going through this. =(
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  • JillRock96JillRock96 member
    I'm so sorry.  :(
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  • KYRNKYRN
    Yes, IF does suck!  I'm sorry that you're going through this.
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  • jds0521jds0521
    I'm so sorry to hear this. :(
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  • oct92004brideoct92004bride
    I agree IF sure does blow!  I was surprised at how upset I was to have a canceled FET this cycle and its not like it was even a BFN.  I do agree having a LO already helps take the edge off it a little.
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