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Sooo... how do you ladies keep TTC fun??

so it doesnt get boring and etc?? Just wondering if it is TMI sorry!!

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Re: Sooo... how do you ladies keep TTC fun??

  • candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....
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  • There really is NO such thing as TMI here.

    Sex does get... "technical" around here sometimes. But, sometimes making fun of that makes it fun.  I try to switch things up constantly. We laugh, A LOT. 

     

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  • I am struggling with this right now myself.  In the past I have tried different outfits and tried to change up positions.  

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  • imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

    Damn.... you go girl!! LOL 

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  • What lovey said, and toys and partner swapping.

    In all seriousness, we just have a to keep a sense of humor. Most of the time it is fun, but a lot of the time it is just work, for both of us. We are ready to get back to sex with no purpose! :)

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  • imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    Good for you!  I tried stripper dancing once.  DH laughed so hard that he cried.  I tried lots of candles and I caught my hair on fire.  This cycle is a bust due to DH's knee injury and intense pain but we keep it fun just like sex has always been fun.  Cosmo recommended that we have a key phrase so that he knows that I am up for sex.  So, he knows when I say want to take a shower that it is on.  It is the same during O time or just for fun sex.

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  • Doing it in places other than the bed I?m finding helps except avoid the couch, we broke ours and now I have to couch shop. Oh and role playing...nothing freaky just... "Hey Mr Furnace Repair Guy... I can't pay you I lost my wallet..." bahaha Oh god I'm laughing out loud at how ridiculous that sounds and yet I've done it. Embarrassed The things we do.

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    Doing it in places other than the bed I?m finding helps except avoid the couch, we broke ours and now I have to couch shop. Oh and role playing...nothing freaky just... "Hey Mr Furnace Repair Guy... I can't pay you I lost my wallet..." bahaha Oh god I'm laughing out loud at how ridiculous that sounds and yet I've done it. Embarrassed The things we do.

    dude. I have always wanted to go to a bar by myself and then have DH pretend to be a stranger and hit on me.  And then make out back by the bathrooms and then pretend to cave and go home with him.

    Sounds fun to me! 

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  • imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    we have a shared backyard, I don't think my neighbors would approve. lol

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    Doing it in places other than the bed I?m finding helps except avoid the couch, we broke ours and now I have to couch shop. Oh and role playing...nothing freaky just... "Hey Mr Furnace Repair Guy... I can't pay you I lost my wallet..." bahaha Oh god I'm laughing out loud at how ridiculous that sounds and yet I've done it. Embarrassed The things we do.

    dude. I have always wanted to go to a bar by myself and then have DH pretend to be a stranger and hit on me.  And then make out back by the bathrooms and then pretend to cave and go home with him.

    Sounds fun to me! 

     

    Me too! DH is all for it but I chicken out. I think it'd be WAY hot but never get the courage up to actually do it.

  • Pretty much just coming onto him, when he's usually the one to initiate sex. I've been trying middle of the day and he looked pretty surprised. lol Hopping in the shower when he's in there after work usually works too. And different spots around the house. We're usually pretty boring and like our comfy bed, but last week we were on the couch, and I think he smiled the whole entire next day. lmao I have lingerie but haven't used it in a while. We really haven't been trying too long, so maybe if things get boring we'll bring in some toys.
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    dude. I have always wanted to go to a bar by myself and then have DH pretend to be a stranger and hit on me.  And then make out back by the bathrooms and then pretend to cave and go home with him.

    Sounds fun to me! 

    Me too!! DH thinks this is ridiculous. He has no game though. I take full credit for making all first moves.

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    imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    we have a shared backyard, I don't think my neighbors would approve. lol

     

    Wow! I should try a stripper dance but I dont think I have the Movvvvves lolol

    and....am I the only one who thought Backyard didnt  mean the actual bacjyard?? Lol iim an idiot

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    imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    we have a shared backyard, I don't think my neighbors would approve. lol

     

    Wow! I should try a stripper dance but I dont think I have the Movvvvves lolol

    and....am I the only one who thought Backyard didnt  mean the actual bacjyard?? Lol iim an idiot

    Well, you never know with Lovey

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    imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    we have a shared backyard, I don't think my neighbors would approve. lol

     

    Wow! I should try a stripper dance but I dont think I have the Movvvvves lolol

    and....am I the only one who thought Backyard didnt  mean the actual bacjyard?? Lol iim an idiot

    Well, you never know with Lovey

    I actually Lol'd at this one.  I did literally mean outside in our backyard.  It turns DH on to be outside.  So, whatevs...

    One time I dared him to pull the car over on the side oh the highway to have sex, because he was whining about wanting to get some.  I was totally kidding, but he called my bluff.  He never calls my bluff.  So, I didn't want him to know that I was totally bluffing so iI went through with it.  Lovey = Klassy.

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  • Since we are trying for #2, it has to be as interesting/creative as possible. Early mornings surprise for DH, sexy lingerie at night, weekends we'll do it in the basement during DD's nap time. A friend of mine is pregnant with #2. Their first co-sleeps with them. I honestly want to know how they got #2 in the oven!?! We find it hard with DD sleeping in another room. Have become the masters of silent sex.
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  • I try to do a lot of foreplay especially for DH so he doesn?t start to feel like I?m using him for his sperm hehe.  We don?t have shower sex anymore because we broke the window in the shower doing that in the past. We are pretty adventurous sometimes, we have had sex in a movie theater Devil

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  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
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    dude. I have always wanted to go to a bar by myself and then have DH pretend to be a stranger and hit on me.  And then make out back by the bathrooms and then pretend to cave and go home with him.

    Sounds fun to me! 

    Me too!! DH thinks this is ridiculous. He has no game though. I take full credit for making all first moves.

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  • Sexy outfits, lots of foreplay, naughty text/pics, different places/positions.  

     

    DH and I decided to role play one evening.  We got all dressed up, went to dinner and acted like it was our first date.  We asked all the "first date" questions, he got me tipsy, and he paid.  On the way home he pulled off into a church parking lot and we went got busy in the back seat of the car.  I was so sure we were going to get caught but that made it even more exciting.  Needless to say, I let him stay over that evening. hehe 

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  • imagebrookelynpaisley:
    imageKery1499:
    imageStucas:

    imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    we have a shared backyard, I don't think my neighbors would approve. lol

     

    Wow! I should try a stripper dance but I dont think I have the Movvvvves lolol

    and....am I the only one who thought Backyard didnt  mean the actual bacjyard?? Lol iim an idiot

    Well, you never know with Lovey

     

    HAHAHAHA it never even crossed my mind....however I don't think that kind of backyard sex is the smartest move while TTC

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    DH and I decided to role play one evening.  We got all dressed up, went to dinner and acted like it was our first date.  We asked all the "first date" questions, he got me tipsy, and he paid.  On the way home he pulled off into a church parking lot and we went got busy in the back seat of the car.  I was so sure we were going to get caught but that made it even more exciting.  Needless to say, I let him stay over that evening. hehe 

    I think we need to do this. I love it!

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  • I've been wondering this.. Before we started TTC my husband wasn't really "into" having sex, he has mild depression and is on Lexapro for it ie: decreased sex drive (and I thought it couldn't get anymore "decreased" than it already was...) Anyways, he's been really good about it having sex when I say we should, but this is only cycle 2 of TTC and I'm getting so nervous that if it doesn't happen right away he'll never want to do it again! Anyone else with this problem????
  • Backyard sex sounds good....if there was a foot of snow out there :) WE mix it up with toys, shower sex, and by switching up positions. It also helps to have a weekend away every once in a while. Nothing like hotel sex to help me de-stress, that a way I am not running through the to do list or thinking about the laundry that needs to be done while getting it on!
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  • We've tried doing it in different rooms of the house spontaneously (jump right on him when he comes in the door from work, etc), but it seems like the dog keeps following us and staring at us when I try to do this...AWKWARD.  It's hard to stay in the moment when you've got a min pin trying to jump in on the fun haha.  Needless to say, we're sticking to our bedroom but trying out toys and other such fun things.
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  • imageloveypants:
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    Doing it in places other than the bed I?m finding helps except avoid the couch, we broke ours and now I have to couch shop. Oh and role playing...nothing freaky just... "Hey Mr Furnace Repair Guy... I can't pay you I lost my wallet..." bahaha Oh god I'm laughing out loud at how ridiculous that sounds and yet I've done it. Embarrassed The things we do.

    dude. I have always wanted to go to a bar by myself and then have DH pretend to be a stranger and hit on me.  And then make out back by the bathrooms and then pretend to cave and go home with him.

    Sounds fun to me! 

    I totally agree that would be fun

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  • imageloveypants:
    candles, stripper dancing for him, shower sex, backyard sex....

     

    backyard sex?  that sounds awesome!  Except in MI, it probably wont be such a good idea at this time of the year.

  • imageangie713:
    I've been wondering this.. Before we started TTC my husband wasn't really "into" having sex, he has mild depression and is on Lexapro for it ie: decreased sex drive (and I thought it couldn't get anymore "decreased" than it already was...) Anyways, he's been really good about it having sex when I say we should, but this is only cycle 2 of TTC and I'm getting so nervous that if it doesn't happen right away he'll never want to do it again! Anyone else with this problem????

    My DH is on Lexapro for anxiety, and he has a decreased sex drive. He would still be interested once a week or so though, which is fine with me normally. But he can manage EOD during O time.

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