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Anyone else totally un-interested in sex since LO...

stacieandclintstacieandclint
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Ever since I got pregnant I have been totally un-interested in sex. My poor DH is going crazy & feeling neglected but I just can't get in the mood!

I'm also on a low dose of zoloft & wonder if that might be part of the reason. DH keeps talking about TTC for # 3 soon and I think it just so he can have sex!

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  • two-pink-shoestwo-pink-shoes
    Yep.  We're had sex 4 times in 8.5 months.  I feel like the worst wife ever.  I pretty much told him if he wanted sex he needs to initiate, not french kiss, and keep it short.  For some reason his tongue really makes me recoil these days.
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  • RedHeadedLeo85RedHeadedLeo85
    I was like that up until about 2 months ago. Finally my sex drive came back. My poor FI thought that he was the reason we didn't do anything.
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  • stacieandclintstacieandclint

    imagetwo-pink-shoes:
    Yep.  We're had sex 4 times in 8.5 months.  I feel like the worst wife ever.  I pretty much told him if he wanted sex he needs to initiate, not french kiss, and keep it short.  For some reason his tongue really makes me recoil these days.

    Exactly! The few times we have had sex I had to tell him to be quick because I was so tired, I think he was just so happy to be getting some he didn't care!

    I totally agree about the tongue thing too...ick!

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  • MommyMar2010MommyMar2010

    Raises hand.  Totally have no sex drive, used to be so into it pre-pregnancy.  I think it's a combo of me not feeling 100% confident in my body (still trying to lose the last 10lbs) and sheer exhaustion from taking care of DD all day.......

    either way, i feel so guilty --and totally agree...french kissing now grosses me out, I can't deal with it!

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    imageMommyMar2010:

    Raises hand.  Totally have no sex drive, used to be so into it pre-pregnancy.  I think it's a combo of me not feeling 100% confident in my body (still trying to lose the last 10lbs) and sheer exhaustion from taking care of DD all day.......

    either way, i feel so guilty --and totally agree...french kissing now grosses me out, I can't deal with it!

    Same here. I thought it was only me! 

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  • shestallshestall member
    So glad I'm not alone. My poor DH is a trooper about it though and he doesn't pressure me but I still feel like the world's worst wife. It was painful to have sex for so long and now that it doesn't hurt I'm just exhausted. After DD goes to bed I have to clean up the house and prep for the next day, the last thing on my mind is sex! I also just never even think about it, no urge, nothing. I was not this way PP or during pregnancy, just started afterwards. :(
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  • jmlushboughjmlushbough member

    imageshestall:
    So glad I'm not alone. My poor DH is a trooper about it though and he doesn't pressure me but I still feel like the world's worst wife. It was painful to have sex for so long and now that it doesn't hurt I'm just exhausted. After DD goes to bed I have to clean up the house and prep for the next day, the last thing on my mind is sex! I also just never even think about it, no urge, nothing. I was not this way PP or during pregnancy, just started afterwards. :(

    This.

    And it bums me out bc I want to start TTC #2. 

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  • ctrfrei1ctrfrei1
    This was soooo me until about a month ago, and my drive slowly started coming back. And then last week I went off BC so we can TTC#2 and I feel awesome! Totally have my drive back. Are you on BC? That can put a damper on things. Oh and we don't french kiss either, his tongue is always too hot, lol.
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