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• JazzFlute

  January 2011

  I am so sorry! It is so difficult to get news like this. Take it easy the rest of the day and give yourself some time before making a decision.

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• magnolia_femme

  January 2011

  I'm so, so sorry. (((hugs)))

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• pinksandbermuda member

  January 2011

  I am so sorry, it is so hard to get news like that.   Allow yourself to be sad, and then rest assured that there are options for you and a plan ahead. 

  
  
  Me: 38  DH:36

  lap for endo 12/2010  uterus didelphys confirmed in hysteroscopy 

  dd born at 34 weeks 2/29/12  short NICU stay

  BFP somewhere around 2/14/13  d&c april @ 12 wks   partial molar diagnosed after d&c

  HCG monitoring for approx 11 months

  TTC  #2 
  

  
  

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• MrsVo member

  January 2011

  I am so very sorry   {{{hugs}}}

  
  Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
  11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
  12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
  1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
  2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
  3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
  *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
  
  
  

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• firewife9278 member

  January 2011

  I am SO sorry!

   
  A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
  Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
  6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
  Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

  2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
  Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF
  
  

   

  

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• ChicagoWeded2007 member

  January 2011

  I am so sorry.  If I were you I would allow myself to be sad for a while.  I would also keep reassuring YH, even if he seems fine.  Remind him that you are going to stay with him no matter what.

  
  Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. -Philo
  
  
  
  Baby N conceived after 1 miscarriage and more than 2 years of TTC. Diagnosis was low sperm count. We found success after 3 months of anastrozole to increase DH's testosterone and one IUI.
  Some charts
  
  
  I'm stupid. You're smart. I was wrong. You were right. You're the best. I'm the worst. You're very good-looking. I'm not attractive. - Happy Gilmore

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• XXXXX222 member

  January 2011

  I'm so sorry Might a urologist be able to tell him if it's a blockage or infection causing the low count? What about a repeat semen analysis to check if it's a temporary thing? Wishing you the best.

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• tosh24 member

  January 2011

  I am so sorry. I second what Sulfa said. It's unfair of the nurse to drop a bombshell on you like that without YH seeing a urologist and figuring out if there's a solution to the low sperm count first. Take some time to digest it all and then perhaps get a referral to a urologist. All the best to you.

  Me: 35 I DH: 38
  *TW loss and children mentioned*

  DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

  
  

  TFAS since 2012
  

  
  

  Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
  Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
  May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
  Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
  Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
  Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
  Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
  Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
  Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
  Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)

  Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation

  Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
  EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
  My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019  
  
  

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• peppersnic

  January 2011

  Im sorry!!  ::::HUGS:::::

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• MegannJay member

  January 2011

  I'm so sorry:(  

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• krysiahamaty

  January 2011

  So very sorry.
  

  TTC since November 2009. DH diagnosed with sperm antibodies. IUI #1 = BFN IUI #2 = BFN On the road to IVF.... Egg Retrieval Jan 21, 2011 16 eggs retrieved Egg transfer Jan 26, 2011 Only 2 viable eggs transferred. 1 IVF, 1 ICSI IVF #1 = BFP :-) 10/3/11 No heart beat at 38 weeks: Our baby Jack became an angel 12/14/11 = natural BFP Rainbow baby Samantha Jacklyn born8/8/12.

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• Temp423319000008365 member

  January 2011

  I'm so sorry! I would definitely recommend seeing a urologist to see if it's due to something else that might be corrected. A second SA might also be a good idea too. 

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• halo_tx

  January 2011

  I am so sorry that you're going through this ((hugs)).

  
  After 2 1/2 years TTC, 3 IUI's, endo, and a lap, a surprise BFP brought us Alexandra Marie!
  

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• leecrystalwed08

  January 2011

  Sorry...that totally sucks

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• Nicoley22

  January 2011

  I'm so sorry to hear that

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• STL34 member

  January 2011

  I'm so sorry.  ((HUGS))

  
  
  
  ~SAIF/PAIF/Everyone Welcome~ 
  
  

  Me= 37 and DH = 41 
  
  Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)
  
  IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN
  
  IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.
  
  IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!
  

  TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

  IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

  IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

  IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN
  

  FET#1:  BFN

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