TTC After a Loss

No DH, I do not want to hear about the FH's in your nursing class

Especially MINUTES after we finish having sex where we CAN'T 'finish'. 

I mean seriously. I don't want to know someone is 8 WEEKS late and is drinking. Another is TTC, late and smoking and that another has had 5 kids in 5 years and only a handful of periods. 

I wish I could undo all the things I just did to you. I was too nice. 

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Re: No DH, I do not want to hear about the FH's in your nursing class

  • No I'm sorry. I wouldn't want to hear about them either.
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  • I'm sorry you had to hear about all of that :P That is just not cool that people are doing that sorta thing in the first place, and hopefully he figure out that you don't want to here about them, too.
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  • Ouch, DH!  Not cool.
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  • Epic fail DH
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  • Wow!  Not cool at all.  I hope DH figures it out for your (and his) sake.
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  • Sorry :(  Tha sucks to hear about especially right after sexy time. 
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  • Ugh..what a horrible time to talk about them!

    At least you know it bothers him seeing all of them. MH doesn't understand why I have such a hard time with FH.  

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  • Ouch. DH Fail. I'm so sorry.
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  • Boo! Not cool at all. I'd be pretty pissed if my DH said all that too. WTF?
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    Ugh..what a horrible time to talk about them!

    At least you know it bothers him seeing all of them. MH doesn't understand why I have such a hard time with FH.  

    He's pretty good about reading me when I see pregnant women when we're out or they are on TV. He isn't always best at having a filter on his mouth. Lol 

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  • Big fail DH! Was he trying to express his frustrations about your situation and how 'easy' it is for others?  Sometimes my DH is so dumb about how he approaches things, and I have to dig a little deeper to figure out that he's venting or upset or stressed and just not expressing it well. 

    Even if it was this - timing is apparently not his forte!

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    Big fail DH! Was he trying to express his frustrations about your situation and how 'easy' it is for others? 

    We're not TTC right now, but he doesn't seem bothered by how easily people get pregnant. Rather how they act during it and how they parent their LO's. 

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  • No Boo to your DH.  That just sucks.
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    I wish I could undo all the things I just did to you. I was too nice. 

    Awesome.  You could have always taken revenge after he fell asleep...

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  • imagenoah-bear:
    imageKristipie:

    Big fail DH! Was he trying to express his frustrations about your situation and how 'easy' it is for others? 

    We're not TTC right now, but he doesn't seem bothered by how easily people get pregnant. Rather how they act during it and how they parent their LO's. 

    I'm sorry, I know you are TTA until the Fall and I didn't really express myself well which makes my comments sound really insensitive.  I meant more frustration about how some people take what they have for granted.  A little more sensitivity from your DH and also from me would be nice. Embarrassed

  • Ugh. I am so sorry. Not fair and boo to your DH for bringing it up.
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  • Oh man - that's what I call extremely poor timing!  Sorry you had to endure that!

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