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Co-workers fail

mandy6418mandy6418
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Two of my co-workers are talking about their pregnancy cravings. Then the one says to me "Just wait until you get pregnant, then you'll know." I so badly wanted to say "Gee thanks, I'm getting ready to bleed out my third one." Some days I just want to smack people.
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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member
    OUCH. Talk about a stab to to heart. Why do people suck SO badly?!?
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  • PachitaPachita member
    Ouch! I'm sorry you have to hear that!  I'd give them a throat punch for you!

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  • MandaS08MandaS08 member
    Arggg-I am so sorry! 

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  • jerryliljessjerryliljess member
    ((hugs)) If only we could duct tape people's mouths shut when they don't use their filter. 
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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    Ugh I'm so sorry. I have gotten to the point with people who don't use their filters that I don't bother using mine... I say it like it is. Makes for some uncomfortable conversations but much less diarrhea of the mouth from people!!
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  • smalltowngirl99smalltowngirl99

    imagePachita:
    Ouch! I'm sorry you have to hear that!  I'd give them a throat punch for you!

    this! defintely needs a throat punch!


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  • AutumnLeavesFall AutumnLeavesFall

    Because I'm usually staying things before I think I would have said that I was losing #3 just to make them eat their words.

    I'm sorry hunny, people can he heartless.

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  • Nicks10Nicks10
    I'm so sorry you had to hear that from her.  That would have made me so angry, though I'm going to guess she doesn't know and thought it was innocent?  I hope you gave her the evil eye anyway.  And I wasn't on the boards yesterday really, so I didn't get to say how sorry I am for your loss.  I hate that you have to come back here.
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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444
    That just sucks.  I would want to smack them too.
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  • TapatioTapatio
    I'm so sorry. People can be so rude when they don't have filters ((hugs)).
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  • itsmeginitsmegin
    Ugh. I think I would have said that just to shut them up. Sorry you have to deal with this right now.
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  • lotus88lotus88 member
    People can be such asses. The day I was back after my d&e a coworker asked me if I was out because of morning sickness.  Nobody knew I was pregnant, she was just suspicious and fishing. I wanted to respond just like you. 
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  • KristipieKristipie member

    I'm so sorry - that sucks.  I am starting to lose my filter when people make comments like this.  It can be just as effective as a good throat punch.

    I hope that your day gets better.

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  • brennbrenn
    Sorry you had to listen to that.  Yuck, what is wrong with people?!  Don't think before they speak!
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member

    That's a sharp stick in the eye, ain't it? 

    I *wish* upon your co-irkers massive dandruff.  Just for a short period time.  Because karma is a b!tch. 

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  • baloneydiscbaloneydisc member
    I'm so sorry hun ((hugs)).  I don't always think before I speak (especially when I'm upset), so I probably would've told them about the loss. 
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  • EclairAngstEclairAngst

    Total crap.  Throat punch ordered on your behalf.  You shouldn't have to deal with them AND punch them right now. 

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  • MommyandKateMommyandKate
    Ugh.  How rude.
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  • jertiejertie member
    They totally deserve a throat punch.  Why can't people just shut the fvck up?!  I hat eit when people make assumptions - they don't know what's happening to people so they should really, really keep their traps shut.  (Now I'm really angry on your behalf - seriously!)  ((BIG HUGS))

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  • EricaK28EricaK28 member
    Huge Huge Hugs
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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal
    imageAutumnLeavesFall:

    Because I'm usually staying things before I think I would have said that I was losing #3 just to make them eat their words.

    I'm sorry hunny, people can he heartless.

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