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Endo surgery Monday

FaithRocksFaithRocks member
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So I am having surgery for my endometriosis on Monday. It sucks and I have a fair chance of having a hysterectomy if things look really bad in there. Not in my plans since DH and I want one more.

It's really stressful because, to be honest, everyone is worried about themselves instead of how I am dealing with this. MIL is worried about how soon I can take care of my kids again so she doesn't have to (maybe that's not how she means it but every time I mention my surgery she asks me about the recovery, etc.)  and even though it isn't his fault, DH is having to deal with how to get off so he can be with me. It's TOTAL BS that he can't have off to take care of me. His department is cool with it and is pulling for him but he's currently rotating in another department that is full of a$$faces. And of course he's freaking out about how to work it out.

Not to mention the fact that I am a little freaked. 

Thanks for listening, guys.

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  • JustaKidAtHeartJustaKidAtHeart
    HUGS I hope all goes well and you are able to keep your ute at least a little longer.
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  • Waiting4baby08Waiting4baby08
    Oh my.  I will certainly be thinking of you.  Sorry it seems everyone is forgetting whose feelings matter the most right now.  I hope everything goes well.
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  • kristinamh6kristinamh6
    It's totally understandable that you are freaked out. I hope everything works out with DH and your MIL so you don't have anything else to worry about on top of the surgery. Sending good thoughts that the surgery goes well and the hysterectomy is not necessary.
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  • alchrisalchris member

    Oh, that's not fair at all -- you have more than enough to worry about. 

    I really hope that it doesn't come to a hysterectomy, and I hope DH and MIL are able to deal with their issues and support you.

    Thinking of you!!!

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  • perry7285perry7285 member

    wow. that's a lot to deal with.

    i really hope things look good and they can avoid a hysterectomy. i'll be sending tons of T&Ps.

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  • laura&dan05laura&dan05 member
    I'll be thinking of you! I hope everything goes smooth and the endo isn't too bad.

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  • BeccaLandesBeccaLandes member
    I hope things go smoothly, and that you don't need a hysterectomy.  I also hope that your family becomes more supportive, which will make things a little easier!
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    I was just thinking about you this morning and was going to page you!  I'm sorry that things aren't really any better!  I hope that things aren't as bad as they anticipate once they get in there..and that your DH's other department stops being asshats :(  (((HUGS)))  hang in there sweetie!
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  • njdcgirlnjdcgirl member

    Hope things go well on Monday and that you don't end up needing the hysto.

    AND I hope family stuff settles down/works itself out so you don't have to worry ontop of it all.  Please keep us posted on how it goes!

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