I swear I'm going to scream. I know everyone is just excited, and I really do feel like a jerk for getting annoyed by this, but seriously. Here are just a few of the questions I receive daily from my family:
~When do you think the baby will come? Answer-I'm really not sure. ~Do you think it will be this week? Answer-Maybe so, but still...not sure. ~How much do you think he weighs? Answer-12 lbs...really? ~Do you think he could come on Thursday because I'm off work (believe it or not, I have gotten so many variations of this question it's ridiculous)? Answer-I will give him the memo.
Anyone else tired of these questions? Please tell me I'm not the only pregnant jerk around here. I want to turn my phone off so badly, but I don't want to freak my husband out if he tries to get in touch with me.
Re: If one more person asks when I thinking baby is coming...
I know! It's SO annoying. Today is my mom's birthday so she keeps telling me I should have him today... like I get to choose.
I also have an appointment with an ultrasound today (LO is looking pretty big so we're just getting it all checked out) and my mom wants me to ask the doctor when she thinks Jack will be born. My mother is an intelligent person, she knows the doctor has no way of knowing, but she keeps asking anyway. *sigh*
I could have written this word for word. I also get asked after every appt what my Dr. said. I don't think they realize he's not going to narrow it down to a day and time. I know everyone is excited by he'll be here when he wants to, not much I can do about it until then.
I get this a lot. My mom's birthday is Feb. 1 and MIL's birthday is Feb. 10. So they are always saying how they hope he comes on those days. I don't want to tell them, but I don't really want him to come on their birthdays, I want him to have his own day and I don't want the day he's born to become about them.
I've been getting "hey, you're still here!" all week! I'm only 37wks people, please save it for after my due date!
You're not a jerk... your family are the jerks to keep asking you.
I am getting really annoyed with mine, who won't drop the "countdown clock" - set for 12:00 noon two days before my due date. As of yet, I do not have an induction or a C section scheduled, so they're all being idiots. He will be born when he is ready to be born, and if we do schedule an induction or C, we won't be telling you till after the fact. Now leave me the fvck alone!