TTC After a Loss

Consult with another RE scheduled.

I know I haven't been very supportive on here lately, because I have been feeling so defeated with being told I need to wait until May to meet with a genetics counselor, and I just don't have anything nice to say these days. 

I set an appointment with a new RE in town and I really hope he will let us move forward without the genetics counseling (since I was given the impression by the Genetics Lab that my issue is not nearly as bad as it was originally explained to be). 

Today I picked up my medical records from my current fertility clinic and spent about an hour reading through them. It was really emotional to read the d&c summary, but it did feel good to read that before the procedure was done they did do another u/s to confirm there really was no heartbeat. I also learned so much more about what was done during my Lap...I had no idea how messed up I was and how involved that surgery was. 

June 2010-Lap
b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
PAIF/SAIF Welcome :)

Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
Homestudy 7/19/2011
IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
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Re: Consult with another RE scheduled.

  • ((hugs)) I hope they give you a good second opinion and let you move forward
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  • (((hugs)))  Medical records can sometimes be a little "overly" descriptive, especially surgical reports, but I agree with you, I would want to read it too, to know what happened.  I hope that you get some good news from the new RE and I hope you were able to get the appointment for very soon. 
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  • Big ((hugs)) I really hope that they figure something out for you.

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  • ((hugs)) I hope that the new RE is able to provide some answers and better news for you.
  • Thanks Ladies!
    June 2010-Lap
    b2b Injectable IUI #1 7/25/10 & 7/26/10 = BFP beta 14dpIUI = 133 MC 9/14 at 9 weeks
    b2b Injectable IUI #2 12/5/10 & 12/6/10 = BFN
    IVF #1 ER 3/28/11 ET 3 embryos 3/31/11= BFN
    b2b Injectable IUI#3 6/28/11 & 6/29/11 = BFN
    PAIF/SAIF Welcome :)

    Submitted Adoption Application on 6/1/2011
    Homestudy 7/19/2011
    IVF#2 CX due to Adoption Match
    We were blessed with our daughter through the gift of adoption
    IVF #2.1 ET 2 embryos 2/14/13 7 frostiesLilypie First Birthday tickers

  • I hope you get some good news soon and I completely understand feeling the need to step away from the board for a bit. We all have crappy days when it seems nothing is going our way. We're here for you! ((big hugs))

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    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • I hope the new RE is able to get you in sooner than May.  Also, I know what you mean about reading your chart.  My doc provided me with Ace's autopsy and it helped to confirm what I was told, but also very hard to read the details.  ((HUGS))

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  • GL! I hope your new RE has a better plan for you.
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    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
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  • I hope you are able to get the information you need with the new RE.
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