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Just when I was thinking it would get easier...

ronnie dayronnie day
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I knew this was coming, I was just waiting and waiting for it to show up, but I have now been invited for my second baby shower....and they are both two weekends in a row.  

I hope they serve mimosas.  If not, would it be tacky if I just brought a bottle of margarita mix with tequila and a straw?

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Re: Just when I was thinking it would get easier...

  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal
    put it in one of those nice stainless steel water bottles, save the environment and your sanity!
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  • tiffany119tiffany119 member

    I'd support that. Or you could bring a flask of Jack and just pretend its only Coke Wink

    I'm dreading my first shower invite. But I know its coming...a good gf of mine is due in April. Any day now someone should be sending out invites..

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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal
    ive got one on feb 5th, its for a really good friend, still undecided
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  • thewayiamthewayiam
    Could you.... not go? Are you up for it?
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  • ashhope84ashhope84 member
    I fully support margaritas! And not going if you are not up for it, if it is too much don't force it.
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  • PrincessVBPrincessVB member

    I went to one in Dec for my college roommate not long after my m/c.  Fortunately, I was so drugged up on cold medication that I got through it.  And came home to a BIG glass of wine and supportive hugs from dh.

    It's hard.  If you decide to go stay strong (and margaritas in a water bottle are a really good idea!)

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  • ronnie dayronnie day

    imagethewayiam:
    Could you.... not go? Are you up for it?

    One is for my cousin, and it would save family drama for me to just go (they are all sensitive) and the other is for a really good friend of mine.  

    I mean, I can't just stay in my house all time and ignore everything that is going outside, as much as I would like to though.  

    And I figure, each shower will just get easier and easier with time.  No time like the present I guess.........(I am also working at trying to stay positive this year, do I sound convincing?) 

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