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Annoying

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So, today I had to deal with not one, not two but five people ask me when we're going to start trying for #2. My response was "when we're ready." Hurt to think that just a couple weeks ago, we were on our way to #2. Thankfully I was with a good friend who knew about the m/c when I was asked all five times.
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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member

    I wish people would just learn to mind their own business. I just don't get why people ever think that is a good idea to ask a woman such a personal question. I know people think its harmless but isn't it common sense that 1 in 4 pregnancies end in a loss? And isn't it common sense that not everyone can get pregnant just by thinking about it? And why would we want to share that with everyone!? I mean if I don't volunteer the information to you then we are not close enough for you to ask!

    I know I'm preaching to the choir! ;)

    I'm sorry you had to hear that so many times today!


    [spoiler] My Blog: Grow Baby Grow

    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


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  • npilcher506npilcher506
    Thats probably the hardest question I have had asked as well. Hugs to you!! I'm glad you had a good friend with you.
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