TTC After a Loss

Update: What would you do?/What is wrong with me?

As it turns out I was KU.  Went to the OB yesterday and had a blood draw and pelvic exam.... only to turn around and m/c this morning.  Eff.My.Life.  I started spotting after the exam.  Levels came back very low and I'm sure with the amount of bleeding, pain and clots that it's game over.  CD1 is a cruel, cruel b*tch.

I'm going to eat an entire pizza for dinner... and possibly treat myself to some cherry coke while I'm at it.


BFP#1: 7/23/10, EDD 4/1/11, MC/DNC 9/29/10(14wks) Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
BFP#2: 1/12/11 CP (6 Weeks)
BFP#3: 6/26/11, EDD 3/4/12, Natural MC 8/5/11 (10wks) Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

Re: Update: What would you do?/What is wrong with me?

  • ((HUGS))So sorry to hear that.  I hope the pizza makes you feel better.
    TTC January 2010
    BFP #1 10-11-10 ectopic discovered 10-22-10, 10-23-10 methotrexate & emergency surgery, lost right tube BFP #2 12-1-10 Found to be tissue dropped from salingectomy or missed heterotopic pregnancy from BFP #1 BFP #3 1-30-11 DS arrived on due date 10-10-11 BFP #4 Surprise 9-3-12 EDD 5-9-13 DS2 arrived 5-5-13 BFP #5 5-14-14 Emergency D&C 6-16-14 9 weeks
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  • I'm so sorry. Get a two-liter of cherry coke.
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  • Sad I'm so sorry. I'll eat a whole pizza with you... ((hugs))
  • I am SO sorry.  (((hugs)))  It's really not fair.  


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  • aww, im really sorry! Sad  i wish you all the sticky dust i can muster that its a false alarm!
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  • oh no I am so sorry:(
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  • I'm so sorry!  ((BIG HUGS))

     

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  • Oh I am so sorry! That is very hard. I would treat myself to an entire bottle of wine with that entire pizza if I were you.

    (((HUGS)))

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  • (((hugs))) I am so sorry hun!!


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  • (((hugs))) I'm so sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry ((big huge hugs))
  • oh my goodness, im so sorry. that's so sh*tty. go tear up that pizza and soda. enjoy every bite!
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  • Oh no - sweetie, I'm so sorry!  (((HUGE HUGE HUGS)))  I would definitely be adding a little Jack to my Cherry Coke.  ((More HUGS))

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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Stupid CD1.

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  • I'm so sorry....I hope you enjoy the pizza, cookies, brownies, ice cream, wine and cherry coke...{HUGS} 

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  • I'm so sorry. Eat and drink whatever you want. (HUGS)
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  • I'm so sorry.  (((big huge hugs))).  I'd add a little vodka to that cherry coke and dive into that pizza.
  • I am very sorry. ((Hugs to You))  Pizza and cherry coke sound like perfect comfort foods to me.  Take care of you.
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  • Thanks ladies...  I appreciate the support.

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  • (((HUGS))) I'm so sorry!
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  • Oh Nikki, I am so sorry.  You might consider swapping out the cherry coke with a Drinks.

    ((Hugs)).

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  • oh no! ((big hugs)) Life sucks sometimes.. I hope your cherry coke and pizza help a little
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  • I'm so sorry. Add some ice cream to that pizza and coke. Big hugs.
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  • I am so sorry.  Spoil yourself.  You deserve it.
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  • I'm so sorry ((hugs)).
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  • I am so sorry. (((hugs)))
  • I am so sorry.  ((hugs))
  • I am so sorry. This is just plain unfair. Hope the pizza helps, and I'm another vote for an adult beverage tonight!
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  • (((HUGS))) I am so so sorry.
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  • OH NO!!  So sorry! (((HUGS)))
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  • (((Hugs))) I am so, so sorry.
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  • (((hugs))) I am so sorry. 
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  • I'm so incredibly sorry. 
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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am so sorry!  ((BIG Hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry! I'm in the same postition as you. I had a chemical in November and apparently again this month.

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  • *huge hugs*  I'm so sorry.
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