Creepy Dudes

sancha66 · January 2011

Has anyone else had run ins with random men who want to hit on you because you are pregnant? I have had everything from the "psst psst" to guys blowing kisses at me to flat out asking for my number. I have on a wedding ring, I am 39 years old and am big as a house. It just is CREEPY to have random pervs on the street coming up and trying to touch me, or calling me hottie and even blowing kisses or pulling up and stopping their cars as I waddle on to ask me out. Am I just in some weird perverted alternate universe or is this normal? My husband also finds it very creepy. I am about to start carrying mace! Its not like its once in a while, I get at least one offer for a date every day, but the more I go out the more random men who roll up on me. Its nasty!!

a.graves · January 2011

Ummm yeah I know the feeling. Not to the extent of guys blowing kisses or asking me out. But when DH and I got into a certain pet store there is this guy there who likes to hit on me.

There is also a guy at work who is single and wants a copy of the maternity pictures DH and I took. We are not that close. I think that is beyond creepy.

TiffanyTheMom · January 2011

I've been checked out from behind by men, and when I turn and they see this MA-HOOSIVE belly protruding, eyes pop out of heads. (lol!!) I don't really get too much like you do though, you must be some kind of sexy yummy mummy to be getting all that kind of attention!

The only time I can recall being verbally hit on by a man while PG was when we still lived in Japan and I was 8 mo pregnant with my DS, and I had to take the trains to work. I was waiting to exit the car and two sailors were standing on the outside waiting to get in. When the doors opened, One of them looked me up and down and said, "Tall glass of watah!!"When I stepped between them with a poker face, the one realized I was KU, elbowed his buddy and cried, "Dude, she's pregnant!!" I dind't hear anymore because I had to keep walking, but I know they heard me cackling as I went down the stairs!! I told all my workmates and they loved it.

sancha66 · January 2011

I more take the sheer amount of hit ons as population related rather than related to my super sexyness LOL. I live right outside of Washington DC so there is a ton of people here, and apparently the males are total pervs...

GracieMaeLovey · January 2011

LOL- please don't take this the wrong way, but i find this to be incredibly hysterical! obvs im saying this in jest, but i take all the cat-calls i can get these days. in fact, just the other day i got a 'nice walk' from a homeless man and it made me blush! ha. joking aside, be careful- mace is not a bad idea...some creeps get off on pregnant woman!