At Elaina's 6 month checkup today the pediatrician said he's concerned about the flatness of the back of Elaina's head...so he's sending us to a specialist for a consultation and a possible fitting. He assured us that this is purely cosmetic and that she's 110% healthy, but I can't help but feel guilty. Anyone else have a LO who has had to wear a helmet? Any info/advice/words of kindness are appreciated...
Re: cranial helmets/bands
Oh--no reason to feel guilty! I am going through this right now, but kind of on the opposite side. I want DD to get a helmet. Due to her torticollis, DD developed a flat spot on the side of her head. We've been working on correcting it, and although the flat spot has rounded out, I can see the other side of her head is still protruding out.
I took DD for a consultation for a helmet fitting this morning, and the orthotist said he could see the "deformity" and went on to take her measurements. DD is 1 point from needing a helmet for correction. The PT and everyone who sees her on a daily basis can notice the protrusion and how the right side of her face is recessed. The orthotist said to keep an eye on her head shape and bring her back at 8 months to get remeasured, and if nothing changes he will fit her for a helmet.
Nothing on the helmet but Ky had to have a Pavlick harness to correct her hip dysplasia. I felt like a terrible mommy and it was made even worse when people would comment on her braces.
What helped me through it was knowing that I did nothing wrong. I could not help that she was squished in there and as a result her hips were deformed. But I could fix the problem and that is exactly what I was doing with the harness.
I understand how you feel. I felt the same way when LO went into his at 5 months. We were originally given exercises & was told to re-position him, but when we went to that final appointment, and the DR said "He needs a helmet", I felt like we failed in some way. But, honestly, we didn't. It goes back to how he was positioned in the womb. DON'T FEEL GUILTY.
LO gets his helmet off on Monday & we are SO HAPPY with the results. He has had it on a total of 11 weeks. I am so glad we did it as early as we did, because he got it off so fast. The younger they are, the faster it goes, becasue their heads are still growing at a rapid rate. If your LO ends up in one, trust me, you will be happy with the results!