TTC After a Loss

What do you assume?

I caught myself hoping to O soon today so that I'll be around for the *next* O in Feb.  If this cycle goes long, I'll be in the Bahamas, without DH for next O.  So I guess, at some level, I'm assuming this won't be our cycle. 

What do you assume? 

 

P.S.  Either way, "EGG, let's GOOO!" 

 

 

 

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  • I'm assuming there is no way I'll be pg before my little sister has her baby in May. I was hoping that would soften the blow.
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  • I'm assuming I'll get my period next week...which I know is an optimistic assumption. Here's hoping...
  • About 75% of the time i assume we won't be successful this cycle, because it's our first TTCAL cycle and "what are the chances we'd have that kind of luck?" I also assume that failing this cycle won't bother me.

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  • I assume I won't get a take-home baby this year. I was supposed to have one in February, so I thought at least having a baby in 2011 would help. I am not convinced this will be our year, but I hope it is.
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  • I assume that I'm going to fall to pieces when I get Af instead of a bfp b/c I am already assuming I'm going to get my bfp right away. I think my first assumption is most likely to be correct.

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  • I assume that we won't get our take home baby this year.. since my cycles are so wacky I might have one more chance this year for a 2011 baby..
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  • The last two times I was PG, I assumed I wasn't so I'm hoping to assume that again in March. But first I am assuming that I will get AF in about 4 weeks (we are TTA) and good results (nothing major wrong) on my RPL b/w in early March. The latter is wishful thinking. 
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  • I'm assuming that I won't get pregnant before my RE consult in March (which my doctor told me when she referred them that there are no guarantees that he'll take me). 
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  • I assume I'll get pg right away when we start TTCAL, but that the next pregnancy will end like the last one :(
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  • I assume that the closest I'm going to come to pregnancy symptoms anytime soon are the side effects from the Clomid and Prometrium.

     

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  • I assume that this is not our cycle.  DH has been away so often that it isn't likely.

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  • I'm assuming that I'm not pregnant this cycle and I'm just waiting for AF so I can start Vitex that I just bought.
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  • I happily assume that many TTCALers will move to PGAL and/or October 2011!  It will happen.

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  • imagesandyd:

    I assume that the closest I'm going to come to pregnancy symptoms anytime soon are the side effects from the Clomid and Prometrium.

     

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  • I assume that the universe will balance things out at some point since DH and I have been through so much sad/bad/negative stuff in the last 7 months.


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  • I honestly don't dare assume much anymore.

    That said, I realize its really unlikely that I'll be pg before my bff has her baby in March.  I also wouldn't be surprised if my younger brother & SIL are expecting before we get BFP#2 (they mentioned starting TTC early in 2011). 

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  • imageHadleyS:

    I happily assume that many TTCALers will move to PGAL and/or October 2011!  It will happen.

    I like this assumption! Yes

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  • I'm assuming my AF will be here by the end of the work week.
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  • imagestarrynyt:
    I assume that the universe will balance things out at some point since DH and I have been through so much sad/bad/negative stuff in the last 7 months.

    This is exactly what I'm thinking right now.  Since I'm in FWP right now, I'm hoping some extra BDing will give me something to hope for in another couple of weeks!

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  • imageTapatio:
    I'm assuming there is no way I'll be pg before my little sister has her baby in May. I was hoping that would soften the blow.

     I've been hoping that I'd be pg by my friend/coworker's baby shower which is the end of Feb. But that's a ridiculous hope becuase it took us 10 months to get pg the first time and this is only our first cycle cleared (we'd have O time in feb before it - two shots). So now I'm hoping by her due date in May. Maybe I should assume we won't by then and it will be less of a blow. 

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  • imageHadleyS:

    I happily assume that many TTCALers will move to PGAL and/or October 2011!  It will happen.

    LOVE this assumption!! 

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  • imageHadleyS:

    I happily assume that many TTCALers will move to PGAL and/or October 2011!  It will happen.

    This Yes

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  • I assume it won't work, too. We have to decide if we are doing one more IUI or moving to IVF if this cycle fails. When I think about it, I find myself just assuming that this cycle will fail.
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