Alright so how do you feel about nicknames for your LO? Whether its from their name or just a random one. DH and I don't mind nicknames. Right now baby is known as Peanut. And from the names we've picked out we don't mind any of the nicknames we can think of.
Re: Nicknames - hate them or love them?
We have such a short common last name that our LO will have a fairly long proper name. So I'm sure we'll use a nickname while they are little...
On a related note: DH's name is James and he goes by James. For some reason, people like to try to call him "Jim" after they meet him once. He has never gone by that and gets slightly annoyed when people continue to call him that after he's nicely corrected them.
One of my favorite comments from him, "Why do people feel the need to shorten a 1-syllable name to a 1-syllable nickname?"
My stepdad is like that too. He is a Michael & gets really annoyed when people assume he likes to be called Mike. He corrects them & then they continue to call him Mike. He's started ignoring people who do it.
I hated the common nickname for my name so I didn't set out having my DD automatically go by one. DD's name could be nicknamed to Kate or Kathy but we call her Kathleen. If we want to shorten how we're referring to her in e-mail or text its just "K". Or random pet names.
My Mom tried like heck to get me to be a "Shelly" and I would correct her, even at 3 that my name was Michelle, not Shelly. I figure my DDs friends will give her the nn that will "stick". I didn't become Mish until high school
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Exactly like my mom. Her name is Diana and people always try to call her Diane. She gets annoyed so at that. She told me that when she was first in grammar school her teachers used to call her Diane and she would go home and be called Diana so she didn't know what her real name was!
Love them. Nicknames never cross my mind (unless it's something really bad) when picking a name. I figure it'll happen eventually and if it's a nn proofed name, someone will dream something up along the line. For example I have a nephew named Mason. Pretty nicknamed proofed right? Every one calls him Jack. We don't know why.
Everyone I know has a nickname. I have 3. It's a fact of life and I think it's fun.
Hate them. With a passion. Like, I turn into the green hulk when nicknames are discussed.
I really don't understand the "we're going to name him xxxx, but we'll call him yyyyy" idea. If you're going to call him yyyy, why not just name him yyyy? If you don't like xxxxx, don't effin use it.
*note: does not apply to nicknames such as "sweetheart" or others of the kind. I'm talking about when role call is done in school, and the kid has to correct the teacher about what their name is.
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I love nicknames. My mom hated them so she chose names for us that couldn't yield a nickname.
We currently don't really have one for DS or LO.
I know of a Randy who wishes his full name was Randall for business purposes. My friend named her kid Ellie and I think that grows up poorly. It'd look better to have Eliana, Eleanor, etc. in a professional setting. JMO.
My dad's name is Randy (just Randy) and he hates when people automatically assume his given name is Randall. Then again, my sister is named Kate (not Katherine). We were all given names that couldn't be shortened. So what do people do? They elongate them by calling my sister Katie or my dad Randall.
^^ thanks for saying it
I personally don't like nicknames if you name your child a long name with the sole intention of them going by something else (I will say, some circumstances or names don't bother me as much as others). But DD is Avery and my sisters and I call her Ave a lot and it's kinda stuck. We don't get Ave personalized on anything, but it's just a short thing to say.
And as for other nicknames, I didn't really care before but DD goes by so many- we call her munchkin, doodle bug, june bug, baby bear...... the list goes on and on and on.
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