Well, we're at the beginning of day 3 and the last two days have been riddled with tons of accidents. But I've followed her instructions to a T - been positive, encouraging, consistent, and persistent. Yesterday he actually showed moments that he's starting to get that it isn't fun going in one's pants. When he had one of his accidents he immediately said, "uh oh! eeeeeew!! pee!" So he at least recognizes what it is and that it isn't a good thing to do it in your pants/on the floor. And I've had success catching bowel movements, but he had a really easy one that he showed no signs of but the second he did it in his pants he turned around and said, "poop!" So he is at least recognizing what he is doing and that it shouldn't be happening in his pants. Now he just has to get to the point of recognizing what's happening BEFORE it happens. But these little signs of progress are really helping me not get frustrated. Today is day 3 - so the book says it is supposed to "click" sometime today. Hopefully sooner rather than later. But I think I'm going to stick with it through the weekend, even if it doesn't because he is getting it, even if it happens in a few more days than 3. Just thought I'd share our experience so far.