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I still cry every Monday morning:(

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It's been 8 months since I've been back to work full-time, and I still cry when I leave for work on Monday mornings. Why is this so hard? :(

I desperately want to be a SAHM, but DH lost his job and my income supports all of us. He is in the hiring process to become a Police Officer (he was an attorney, but no one is hiring now), and it looks promising. It sucks that the process takes nearly a year and we won't know anything at least May.

I try so hard to keep an eye toward the future and know that one day I will be home with them, but knowing that I am missing this time with them breaks my heart. 

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Re: I still cry every Monday morning:(

  • LucyPevensieLucyPevensie member
    It does suck.  I want to stay home too - not an option for us either right now.  But I hope your time is right around the corner - and it will be all the sweeter (much like having babies for the women of SAIF) for your having had to wait for it, so you can really appreciate it! 
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    I'm so sorry sweetie...I'm having a really rough monday today too...  It sucks more than anything that you had to go through hell to get your babies and now you can't spend your days the way you want to.  ((((HUGS)))))
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  • JessandJeremyJessandJeremy member
    I hear you. I always thought I'be be a SAHM too. Then the economy tanked and with free childcare at our daycare( I'm the Assistant Director,) it doesn't make sense for me not to work. I have a hard time each day too and all I have to do is walk down the hall to get snuggles.
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  • perry7285perry7285 member

    oh honey that's so hard. i hope that DH has some income soon and you can stay home with your LOs.

    (((hugs))) 

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