Trouble TTC

No snowbabies :(

I was told at my ET (1/15) that they would send a letter in the mail w/in a week telling me the status. Well, it's been a week and no letter.

I just called the RE to find out. They actually put it in their system on 1/18 but never sent the friggin letter ! Well, neither made it to freeze. Sad If one of the one's they put back don't stick, we may be at the end of our road. We have no $ ( insurance or savings) left after this last one. It would probably take a good 6 months to a year to save up for an entire OOP cycle.

I really really really need this to work !

I started to get AF like cramps last night and was totally freaked out. I had tested that morning ( 8dp3dt) and it was negative. At the time, I rationalized it as making sure the trigger was gone but once the cramps started, I started to worry. Thankfully, they have stopped.

Please send any extra vibes you have that AF will stay away & I will have a good beta on Sat! I'm a bit tempted to test again tomorrow or Weds but I'm trying to use my strength not to !



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Re: No snowbabies :(

  • I sure hope you get good news this week! ((HUGE HUGS))

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  • You have got my best thoughts that this works for you MrsMo and that there was no need for snowbabies anyway. *hugs* and GOOD LUCK!!!
    11/10: IUI #1 =100mg Clomid CD4-8 + pregnyl trigger + IUI = chemical pregnancy
    1/11: IUI #2 = 5mg Femara + trigger + IUI = BFN
    2/11: IUI #3 = injectibles + trigger + IUI = BFN
    IVF #1 April 2011 ER 4/23 w/16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fert., 4 blasts to freeze, 5dt of 2 blasts on 4/28, beta #1 5/7 = 243... beta #2 5/9 = 491....beta #3 5/11 = 1113!!
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  • Praying for you now!
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  • I'm praying like crazy for you Mo!!
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  • I'm sorry about none in freeze, Mo.  :( I really hope you transferred the two most awesome embryos and they're getting comfortable - best of luck Saturday!
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  • Oh, honey.  I'm so sorry for no snowbabies, but like PPs said I am hoping so hard that this cycle is it for you!  (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry - I am sending you all of my wishes for this cycle and a sticky baby. 

    It is definitley too early to test - so try to hold out until at least Wednesday (and believe me - I know its hard - I would POAS everytime I go to the bathroom if I could).  GL :)

     TTC #1 since 6/09
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
      3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
    14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573

    1st u/s=
    TWINS!
    It's a Boy and a Girl!

    Born at 34w3d! 
     

  • I'm sorry about your frosties. I hope you get a terrific beta on Saturday!
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  • Sending tons of thoughts and prayers your way that you get your sticky baby from this cycle.?
    IUIs #1-3 (1x unmedicated, 2x Clomid) = 2 BFNs, 1 m/c at 7w3d
    IUIs #4-6 (injects) = 3 BFNs
    IVF #1 = BFN
    FET #1 = BFN
    FET #2 = BFN
    IVF #2 = BFP, b/g twins lost at 20w due to partial abruption/PPROM
    IVF #3 = c/p 5w2d
    Long-shot Clomid/Prednisone cycle before next IVF = BFP, our beautiful, healthy girl born 6/26/13!
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    FET #3 - May/June 2014
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    all embryos arrested before xfer - back to the drawing board...
    IVF #4 - July/August 2014 
    beta 1 (11dp3dt) 220, beta 2 (13dp3dt) 671, beta 3 (19dp3dt) 10762
  • Thoughts and prayers coming your way.  Remember they put the best back!  ((hugs))
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  • Sending sticky vibes your way. Good luck sweetie!
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    2/2010 - 5/2010 Testing with OBGYN
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    12/2010 Clomid + IUI #1 = BFN
    1/2011 Clomid + IUI #2 = BFN
    2/2011 Clomid + IUI #3 = BFN
    5/2011 IVF #1, ET 6/2, Beta 6/15 = BFN
    8/2011 FET ET 9/12 = BFN :0(
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    1/2012 IVF #2 ER 1/12, ET 1/15, Beta 1/27 = BFFN
    4/2012 FET ET ??/?? =
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  • MrsMo, I really dislike your clinic. I'll pray for you. Hopefully implantation cramps. Hang in there.

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  • Sending thoughts and prayers to your uterus! Hope those you got embies were great ones!
  • I am so sorry there were no snowbabies but I am pulling for you to not need them anyway!  Tons and tons of T&Ps for you to get a high beta!!  {{{hugs}}}

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
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  • I am so sorry that none of the embies made it to freeze.  ((hugs))

    I really, really hope that at least one of those little ones sticks!!!  At least you know that your trigger is out, so if you do test again you can be certain if you see two lines that it's for real.  Good luck hun!!! 

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    You have got my best thoughts that this works for you MrsMo and that there was no need for snowbabies anyway. *hugs* and GOOD LUCK!!!

     

    Ditto all of this! I was just thinking of you this morning. Hoping for huge news this week! Good luck!

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  • I'm so sorry about none making it to freeze., Mrs. Mo. :(

    You'll be in my thoughts and prayers this week. Good luck!! (((HUGS)))

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  • Fingers crossed for you!!!!!  GOOD LUCK!!!! <3

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  • I hope there's no need for snowbabies anyway! Sending TONS of good thoughts to you!!! ((HUGS))

     
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    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
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  • Sending lots of "positive" vibes:)  Good luck with your beta Saturday!
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  • ((BIG HUGS))

    I'm so sorry Mrs. Mo. I've got everything crossed that it was just too early to test and you have a perfect little embie (or 2) snuggled in for a nice long 9 months!

    I just got the news that we didn't get any snowbabies either. I took it harder than I thought I would and I'd be lying if I said it didn't make me worry more about the two they transferred.

    Stay strong and know you've got a lot of people hoping and praying for you!

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  • I have my fingers crossed that you get positive news this week. (((hugs)))
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  • I hope you will get good news! Sending lots of good beta vibes your way!

    After 2 1/2 years TTC, 3 IUI's, endo, and a lap, a surprise BFP brought us Alexandra Marie!
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  • I'm so sorry Ms. Mo! I'm praying extra hard for you.

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  • Lots of T&Ps Coming your way.  I am so sorry there are no snowbabies.  I pray you got some sticky embies in there!

    IVF #1: 4-11-11= Transferred 1 beautiful blastocyst I named "Nugget"
    5 Snowbabies! Beta#1 4/21= BFP! 226; Beta#2 4/25= 944
    DS born 12/14/11

    Baby #2 FET Nov/Dec 2013

    12/13 Beta#1=BFP 349; 12/16 Beta#2=1,089. First ultrasound 12/26. DS#2 born 8/8/14
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  • Good luck, hon!

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    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

  • Thanks ladies ! It's just tough to hear that all our eggs are now in one basket (well, 2 since they trans. 2).


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    "Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
  • Good luck,  I hope that is all you need!
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    lap for endo 12/2010  uterus didelphys confirmed in hysteroscopy 
    dd born at 34 weeks 2/29/12  short NICU stay
    BFP somewhere around 2/14/13  d&c april @ 12 wks   partial molar diagnosed after d&c
    HCG monitoring for approx 11 months
    TTC  #2 

  • Im sorry Mrs. Mo!!! Hang in there girl! You might not even need them ;)
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  • Crossing everything for you. ((hugs))
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  • Good luck to you. In an effort to get you thinking positive, I went through two rounds of IVF, transferring a total of 15 embryos... I NEVER got pregnant despite thousands of dollars, pain, frustration etc... Two months after I stopped all the procedures and meds I got a BFP !! Now I just can't seem to get pregnant with a second...it's been 2 years. . Infertility can make you miserable and suck the life out of you.  Here's to a good beta and a BFP real soon !

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  • Good luck!! I will be thinking of you and sending lots of sticky thoughts! 
  • Crossing my fingers that you don't need that back up plan.  Best of luck on your beta on Saturday.
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