For Z we only really do it for bedtime. We don't do it before naps and normally we do the pick-up for him. Right now he has 5-6 toys out in the living room and they need to go in his toy box. He is down for his nap. I will end up doing it. I'm just not sure if we should be doing each time.
I should also mention that we don't really "enforce" it. We are just trying to get him used to picking up stuff after himself. We walk him over to his toys and then back to the toy box. He is starting to get the idea of how it works and will put some toys away by himself. He will also start to take them out again. It's all still a learning process.
Re: When do you/do you enforce clean up time?
The only reason we do it is because they started it at Gymboree. The class for the 10-12 monthers is when it started for Z. They sing a song and everyone brings toys to the bucket. I figured since he was learning it there then we should continue it at home.
I'm relieved that it's not common. I was thinking my kid is broken.
They don't do this in our Gymboree class.
I was suprised to see it done. It's mostly the older kids who get it. Z is doing good for following the pack. He also kind of gets it when we are home.