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Sh!t my spouse does Saturday.

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Re: Sh!t my spouse does Saturday.

  • My DH is doing laundy right now :)
     

    We take turns with the laundry chore. It's his turn now!

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  • DH and I have had another week where we barely crossed paths so I don't have much to say. DH is on another 3 day weekend so I'm hoping he accomplishes something around the house!
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  • DH shoveled the driveway before I got home from work yesterday so I could just pull into the garage without any effort at all :) And he vacuumed the many tumbleweeds around the house (two dogs will do that..)
    After two losses, a rainbow arrived! DD born 11.5.11
    Dx with severe Asherman's syndrome after a botched PP D&C (pursuing med mal)
    Hysteroscopy Oct '13, not enough progress 
    Hysteroscopy Jan '14, given an end-of-the-road diagnosis
    Joined International Asherman's Association April '14 
    Not ready to give up yet.
    Hysteroscopy with Dr. Isaacson (an expert in the USA) 6.2.14: Good prognosis, at least 50% of cavity open.
    Repeat hysteroscopy scheduled with Dr. I on 6.16.14. Great progress. Unbenched!!!!
    Discussing actively TTC with DH after the heartache of the last year. We're both reeling.
     
    Please, please, please. 
  • He's going to the baby shower with me today for moral support.. but right now he is getting on my nerves cause I'm starving and all he wants to do it sleep
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  • Now that I'm basically working from home, I don't have time to come up with extravagant dinners. I basically do beef (cooking up steak), chicken, and pork. He keeps bltching about it but will never do anything. Yesterday we were talking about dinner and he got complainy again so I said "either put up or shut up, if you're going to talk shlt, then you make dinner". Lol. He did shut up.

    I told him to write down all the dinner ideas he had and once we used most of what we have here, I'll make menus and we'll hopefully make things better.

    Now I just need to start scheduling my days. As it is, I do whatever whenever I can, including stamping. So I normally slack on focusing on time to get things done. 

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  • imagenoah-bear:

    Now that I'm basically working from home, I don't have time to come up with extravagant dinners. I basically do beef (cooking up steak), chicken, and pork. He keeps bltching about it but will never do anything. Yesterday we were talking about dinner and he got complainy again so I said "either put up or shut up, if you're going to talk shlt, then you make dinner". Lol. He did shut up.

    I told him to write down all the dinner ideas he had and once we used most of what we have here, I'll make menus and we'll hopefully make things better.

    Now I just need to start scheduling my days. As it is, I do whatever whenever I can, including stamping. So I normally slack on focusing on time to get things done. 

    *ds mentioned*

    I have no idea what you do but it sounds like you have a lot on your plate! lol! I make menus also for the week and then he goes to the grocery with Noah to give me time to bump! [our boys have the same name! I would freak if our husbands had the same name also! lol!]

     

    Mine is at the grocery. =)

  • When I went for my U/S at the hospital yesterday Ryan was in such a bad mood for whatever reason and refused to go in with me and I really needed him with me for support because I was Crying the whole time looking at my empty ute!  Today he acts like nothing happened.  No apology yet, needless to say I am not speaking to him right now!

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    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
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    When I went for my U/S at the hospital yesterday Ryan was in such a bad mood for whatever reason and refused to go in with me and I really needed him with me for support because I was Crying the whole time looking at my empty ute!  Today he acts like nothing happened.  No apology yet, needless to say I am not speaking to him right now!

    Oh I'm so sorry. Men deal with things so differently, that he was probably hurting too. I hope that you are able to make up soon!

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    imageFallon621:

    When I went for my U/S at the hospital yesterday Ryan was in such a bad mood for whatever reason and refused to go in with me and I really needed him with me for support because I was Crying the whole time looking at my empty ute!  Today he acts like nothing happened.  No apology yet, needless to say I am not speaking to him right now!

    Oh I'm so sorry. Men deal with things so differently, that he was probably hurting too. I hope that you are able to make up soon!

    Thanks so much!  Sometimes I feel like they are from different planets!  And I'm sure we will, we always do, he just needs to apologize and there is no question about that!

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    Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"

    DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
    He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas

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  • imageFallon621:

    When I went for my U/S at the hospital yesterday Ryan was in such a bad mood for whatever reason and refused to go in with me and I really needed him with me for support because I was Crying the whole time looking at my empty ute!  Today he acts like nothing happened.  No apology yet, needless to say I am not speaking to him right now!

    I'm sorry. I don't blame you for not speaking to him! 

  • I barely get to see DH this weekend because he's doing a big race the whole weekend. So he has no opportunity to do anything bad, haha! Although I don't really like that he is busy ALL weekend on my weekend off. 
  • imageopallover:

    *ds mentioned*

    I have no idea what you do but it sounds like you have a lot on your plate! lol! I make menus also for the week and then he goes to the grocery with Noah to give me time to bump! [our boys have the same name! I would freak if our husbands had the same name also! lol!]

     

    Mine is at the grocery. =)

    I make jewelry, stamped pieces more specifically. Right now I'm working on an order of 40 washers to be in NY by the 1st. Little crazy, lol. My DH is Aaron 

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    imageFallon621:

    When I went for my U/S at the hospital yesterday Ryan was in such a bad mood for whatever reason and refused to go in with me and I really needed him with me for support because I was Crying the whole time looking at my empty ute!  Today he acts like nothing happened.  No apology yet, needless to say I am not speaking to him right now!

    I'm sorry. I don't blame you for not speaking to him! 

    Thanks you! At least I know I'm not being stubborn and irrational.

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"

    DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
    He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas

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  • He's finally organizing his garage!  It was a disaster!!
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  • My DH is being an a$$hat right now.  He got mad because I had one drink with co-workers last night because it was my boss' birthday.  I came home an hour late than I told him (I called him to let him know so he wouldn't worry). 

    I think it's his time of the month lol. 

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    5/3/2010: MM/C at 7 wks 6 days
    5/25/2014: CP at 4 wks 3 days

    Because of the great "Snow"vember of 2015, my medicated cycle was cancelled.  However, we were blessed with our little rainbow baby due on 8/14/15!  Baby J had other plans and decided to make his grand ole entrance on 7/4/2015!

    Surprise!  Our little girl entered this world on 12/8/2016 after her eviction notice was long past due.  Our little turkey baby turned into a snow baby!  

                                                        
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  • My DH is a nontraditional college student, and I am a school teacher.  Last night, he got mad at me because I didn't think it was a good idea that we go to one of his classmates birthday party...who was my student a few years ago.  He's going to school to be a teacher, he should begin to understand the need for social separation. 
  • He gets to sleep in while I wake up at 5:30am to go running in the cold!
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  • DH was pretty sick with the flu on Monday and Tuesday which really messed with our FWP time.  Thursday I got home from work and he had ordered flowers for me.  He NEVER gives me flowers for no reason.  He said it was for taking care of him.

    This morning he picked up my favorite breakfast...Whataburger Honey Butter Chicken Biscuit.  Big Smile

     

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    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

    Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • imageFallon621:
    imagemillejj1:
    imageFallon621:

    When I went for my U/S at the hospital yesterday Ryan was in such a bad mood for whatever reason and refused to go in with me and I really needed him with me for support because I was Crying the whole time looking at my empty ute!  Today he acts like nothing happened.  No apology yet, needless to say I am not speaking to him right now!

    Oh I'm so sorry. Men deal with things so differently, that he was probably hurting too. I hope that you are able to make up soon!

    Thanks so much!  Sometimes I feel like they are from different planets!  And I'm sure we will, we always do, he just needs to apologize and there is no question about that!

    I'm sorry! I do think you're owed an apology. But like PP said, men deal with things so differently. ((hugs))
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    BFP#2 02/18/11 * Beta@15dpo=215 * @18dpo=698 * @20dpo=2337 * @25dpo=10,931 * DS Arrived October 24, 2011
    BFP#3 08/12 | D&C 9/12 (no hb)
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  • mine left a candle burning all night, luckily in our room, away from anything, but still!
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  • imageala_1220:
    DH was pretty sick with the flu on Monday and Tuesday which really messed with our FWP time.  Thursday I got home from work and he had ordered flowers for me.  He NEVER gives me flowers for no reason.  He said it was for taking care of him.

    This morning he picked up my favorite breakfast...Whataburger Honey Butter Chicken Biscuit.  Big Smile

    Aw, what a sweetheart.  You deserve it.

    I won't see my H at all this weekend because we are both working.  By the time I get home he's already left, and the cycle continues.  Hopefully the house isn't trashed by the time I get home.

  • I went out to the Farmer's Market this morning and left DH making breakfast. When I got back he was gone to the park (SD had a game). He didn't save me any breakfast! WTF?! I would never make something for me to eat and not save him any. So now I'm having chocolate cake for breakfast/lunch Sad.
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    Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
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    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • imageTapatio:
    I went out to the Farmer's Market this morning and left DH making breakfast. When I got back he was gone to the park (SD had a game). He didn't save me any breakfast! WTF?! I would never make something for me to eat and not save him any. So now I'm having chocolate cake for breakfast/lunch Sad.

     

    Booo to no breakfast.... but I'm a bit jealous of the chocolate cake right now.  

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  • DH spackled the walls, painted over the spots and hung pictures!

    thank you DH! love you

    Married 5/15/10. Me (29). DH (33). BFP#1 7/25/10 - Missed m/c 8wks - D&E 8/25/10 BFP#2 12/25/10 - Missed m/c 7wks - D&E 1/20/11 (second loss due to abnormal chromosome 7) Genetics testings- Normal. RPL panel results- Normal. Elevated FSH (14). DH b/w normal. SA- Normal. HSG- Left tube possibly blocked. Minor septum removed. My Ovulation Chart ~~ Hope is the companion of power, and mother of success. For who so strongly hopes has within him the gift of miracles ~~ image
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