I didn't know...(pg mentioned)

Re: I didn't know...(pg mentioned)

• Pachita member

  January 2011

  I was in your shoes a little over 3 months ago....when my SIL announced she was PG. I went home crying to DH and venting.  It was difficult to be happy for her knowing that I should have been 2 months ahead of her.  I know how you feel.

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• Tapatio

  January 2011

  This is EXACTLY how I felt when I found out my little sister was pregnant. I was supposed to have the next baby in the family. It was MY turn, not my baby sister. I felt like the rug had been pulled from underneath me and the world seemed so fvckin' unfair! Having to fake happiness for her was such a difficult moment.

  I know you wish nothing but the best for your SIL and that shows what a great heart you have. I'm so sorry you feel defeated. You WILL have your turn some day and it WILL be your take home baby. ((huge hugs))

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• NY-allie

  January 2011

  I've gone through this so many times this month.  I've had 4 friends announce their pg.  It hurts every time because I think that I should be there with them experiencing it too.
  

  
  
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• butterfly843

  January 2011

  Sending hugs

  Jenn

  3 IUI's all BFN

  IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

  Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

  BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

  Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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• LaraGaudess member

  January 2011

  This was me as well, 4 days after I lost my baby, I found out that my sister in law was pregnant. It totally sucked (for me). All my friends are having babies now too, and I'm the odd one out. I hope it gets better for all of us, it sucks feeling like you've been kicked out of the cool kids club.

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• cutebride73 member

  January 2011

  (((hugs)))  I know it is really hard.  I have had a couple of pregnancy announcements like that.  I am happy for them, but it hurts at the same time.  In fact there were 2 right near my 2 fall EDD's - one of my good friends and DH's counsin's wife.  It's just hard to accept that they have what you want so badly and should have had. 

  I really hope it is your turn soon!!  

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• sarahandadam1029

  January 2011

  {{HUGS}} I completely understand how you feel.

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• Carolee member

  January 2011

  (((Hugs)))  I felt the same way when a really good friend told me she was expecting.  It's not that I'm not happy for her, but it made me so sad for myself.

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• clauseka member

  January 2011

  So sorry your week is ending that way.  I think it's even harder to hear baby news from those who are closer to us.  I know it was harder for me when my SIL got pregnant than more distant relatives made announcements.  I am truly happy for them, but it only amplifies my own disappointment.  I feel your pain and wish you didn't have to carry it.  ((Hugs to You))

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• vitan member

  January 2011

  Just wanted to also say that I know exactly how you felt/feel.

  I found out 2 weeks ago my SIL was pregnant and literally it's like the life was sucked out of me all over again. It's getting easier to deal with but I do not want to hear about it, not ready for it. 

  Sending a BIG hug your way.

  
  

  
  
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• christineandaaron member

  January 2011

  i'm so sorry you have to be going through this. i have SIL right now who is pg as well. we would have been 3-4 weeks apart. she is due the end of march. i keep telling myself that i just have to be pg before she has the baby. i will be devastated if i'm not. it is going to be so difficult to hold that little baby. BIG BIG HUGS! i hope the rest of your weekend gets better.

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• LilMaggs member

  January 2011

  *hugs*  It's incredibly painful.

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• ColleenS629 member

  January 2011

  It sucks. Hugs!

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• thewayiam

  January 2011

  Oh, that really hurts. I'm so sorry you have to deal with this now.

  
  
  BFP#1 - 8/27/10 - D&C 10/27/10 @ 13 weeks to Trisomy 18
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• JennF4185

  January 2011

  Thanks for all your kind words.  It made me feel good that my MIL told me today that she was proud of the way i handled the situation last night.  She said she knew how much it hurt me to see/hear a close family member announce that (she had a miscarriage as well years ago).  THanks for the support

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